xSkillzUK wrote It has been brought to my attention this evening that my Dad is having an affair! After 29 years of marriage. My sister also two nights a go was caught drink driving and as a result is about to lose her drivers license. Which also means that she will lose her job and her license to continue working as a social worker.

I wish the world had ended today! At least,I wouldn't have to deal with this bull.

I'm not even sure why I am posting this. I think I could just do with getting it off my chest as these days I don't seem to have a lot of people to talk to.

Look, there are obstacles that you are going to have to overcome in life, and you have to try and deal with them. I'm sure you've heard this before, but life is like a rollercoaster. You have those high and low moments in your life, and it's all a part of it. Having some of these obstacles or problems in life helps build strength and wisdom in a person. What happened was terrible of course, but you'll get through it. Besides, things could always be worse.

ahhh i know that feeling bro, last christmas was my first christmas without my grandpa ( I live with my gran, and now passed away, grandpa) and it was a bad christmas. just keep your head up mate and look ahead to the future. :xmas: Merry Christmas and a happy new year

I had a pretty sh*t time recently too bro , Girlfriend left me for my 'Bestfriend' , I got crazy abuse tonight (Had about 10 people telling me to kill myself and saying everyone would be happier without me) and my mom doesn't have enough money to pay all the bills and I can't do sh*t about it.

that sucks dude. keep your chin up and everything will be oka. like everyone is saying, this is just a obstacle and you will get pass this!

this christmas will suck. my sort of best friend died of cancer yesterday.

Bethesda wrote I had a pretty sh*t time recently too bro , Girlfriend left me for my 'Bestfriend' , I got crazy abuse tonight (Had about 10 people telling me to kill myself and saying everyone would be happier without me) and my mom doesn't have enough money to pay all the bills and I can't do sh*t about it.

Chin up <3 (

You think that's bad?

Imagine being the people whos kids were killed in Connecticut. Your only problems are your dad is having an affair and your sister got a DUI.

heads up bro it is just a few minor family problems but just take a deep breath and it will get better

Someone out there has it worse.

I cant touch on much more than what has already been said man but people are here for you on a site where allot of people have went through stuff of their own and myself included you will get through it, it will make you stronger and in the long run it is building you the person you need to be.

As for the quitting weed man congratulation man it is harder to quit weed than i would safely say near any other drug i unfortunately haven't got the will power to quit it and when you do get down being on it depresses you like nothing normal after a couple of days First hand experience. Big respect for quitting man

All i can say is be there for your Mum and Sister man they need you now more than ever.

Hope you can read this and it hopefully makes since.

Ever need to talk or anything bro just hit me up. Its harder to deal with this shit by yourself.

Good luck.