Fee wrote Alright, Before I even begin to talk about real life problems; I'm going to say for everyone who is probably going to hate on me here really needs to not? I don't see why'd you'd trp;; in the first place.
Now that I got that off my chest, Here I go, A week or 2 ago my mom found out I started smoking weed. She smokes cigarettes everyday, Probably at least a pack a day, Now weed is way better for you then cigarettes (not saying weed is good for you either), And the only reason it's even illegal is because the government can't make taxes off it because people can just grow it in their backyard. Anyways, I came home really high and my eyes were hella red. My mom found out and everything and she said not to do it again. Then, At school I did Triple C's with some of my friends. The high was amazing, The day went extremely fast. now if you don't know what Triple C's are, it stands for Coricidin cold & cough, It's basically for high blood pressure. I took 8 of them because I am a newbie, Most people I know take like 12 or 16.

I think that says a bunch right there. You violated your mom's wishes and continued to do something that is harmful to your body, especially at such a young age (I am guessing you are between 12-17 YOA). By doing so you showed you mom that even though she asked you not to do something (that you just admitted being not healthy) you ignored her and continued to do it, plus you moved on to taking pills. Do you have any idea what taking those pills do to the body over a period of time? Parents inherently have a desire to keep their children safe, which is why even though she smokes cigarettes she does not want you smoking MJ. Since you are young she wants your body and mind to fully develop. I'm sure that doing all of that at school probably did not go over well either.

Now that I have gone over that lets work on you restoring her trust.
1. If you really want to get her trust back then you need to QUIT SMOKING and taking other illegal narcotics. If you don't then you will just continue to lie to her and this will be all for not. Trust me, when you get out of her house and on your own there will be plenty of time to dive into anything that you want. I'm only saying this because you asked for advice.
2. Actions speak louder than words. Show her that you realized that you messed up and that you learned from your mistakes.
3. You need to put yourself in her shoes and try to feel what she feels. By doing that you will see her perspective of why she wants the best for you.
4. Make amends with her. Try doing something nice for her like helping around the house. Don't go overboard or she will think you are hiding something. Just help her out more. Flowers go along way.

When you sit down with her ensure that you are sincere and truthful or you will just cause more harm and you will NEVER REGAIN HER TRUST.


Just my .02


Groovy

Weed isn't really addicting though.

Casca wrote

Fee wrote Alright, Before I even begin to talk about real life problems; I'm going to say for everyone who is probably going to hate on me here really needs to not? I don't see why'd you'd trp;; in the first place.
Now that I got that off my chest, Here I go, A week or 2 ago my mom found out I started smoking weed. She smokes cigarettes everyday, Probably at least a pack a day, Now weed is way better for you then cigarettes (not saying weed is good for you either), And the only reason it's even illegal is because the government can't make taxes off it because people can just grow it in their backyard. Anyways, I came home really high and my eyes were hella red. My mom found out and everything and she said not to do it again. Then, At school I did Triple C's with some of my friends. The high was amazing, The day went extremely fast. now if you don't know what Triple C's are, it stands for Coricidin cold & cough, It's basically for high blood pressure. I took 8 of them because I am a newbie, Most people I know take like 12 or 16.

I think that says a bunch right there. You violated your mom's wishes and continued to do something that is harmful to your body, especially at such a young age (I am guessing you are between 12-17 YOA). By doing so you showed you mom that even though she asked you not to do something (that you just admitted being not healthy) you ignored her and continued to do it, plus you moved on to taking pills. Do you have any idea what taking those pills do to the body over a period of time? Parents inherently have a desire to keep their children safe, which is why even though she smokes cigarettes she does not want you smoking MJ. Since you are young she wants your body and mind to fully develop. I'm sure that doing all of that at school probably did not go over well either.

Now that I have gone over that lets work on you restoring her trust.
1. If you really want to get her trust back then you need to QUIT SMOKING and taking other illegal narcotics. If you don't then you will just continue to lie to her and this will be all for not. Trust me, when you get out of her house and on your own there will be plenty of time to dive into anything that you want. I'm only saying this because you asked for advice.
2. Actions speak louder than words. Show her that you realized that you messed up and that you learned from your mistakes.
3. You need to put yourself in her shoes and try to feel what she feels. By doing that you will see her perspective of why she wants the best for you.
4. Make amends with her. Try doing something nice for her like helping around the house. Don't go overboard or she will think you are hiding something. Just help her out more. Flowers go along way.

When you sit down with her ensure that you are sincere and truthful or you will just cause more harm and you will NEVER REGAIN HER TRUST.


Just my .02


Groovy

That is a very good way of seeing it. The only reason why she cares so much is because it's illegal. My sister does it and my brother used too. I'm surrounded by it regardless of what I do anyway.

Fee wrote
That is a very good way of seeing it. The only reason why she cares so much is because it's illegal. My sister does it and my brother used too. I'm surrounded by it regardless of what I do anyway.

Then you have a decision to make. Either quit and ignore the influences and restore your mom's trust, or continue to do it and risk losing it. Regardless you have a tough decision to make. Remember, in the end your mom will love you, she always will, you are her son and she just wants the best for you. Try having an honest talk with her and see where that takes you.


Groovy