First you want to get a party of friends if you want to do this and make it work almost every game. If you have a friend with a really good connection or you have a good connection it will work better. Once you get your party start searching in any gametype that is 4v4 or more players, because it will only work in that.You can NOT do this in team doubles. So then all of your friends and you should get up your friends list and get ready to send a message. You go to a friend and clip his gamer card and get send message highlighted. Then once the game starts immediatly pop it up along with everyone else in your party and start typing anything. Once you do that if someone on your team is host then the map will not load and everyone will just have to sit there. The game will never start unless that person exits there message and goes back to the game. So by this point you can just go and watch some Family Guy until a couple guys on the other team quit out. Then when your ready everyone on your team goes back to the game. The map will load and then you can veto and do the normal stuff and easily beat the other team.