Flandre wrote Thank you to everyone who took the time to read this, and reply to it.
It does help, whether you think so or not.

Ur welcomeif u need any help pm me ;)

just to start of i think you are 100% right . there are loads of things in life that you need to learn but this one i think is the most important , if you have a reay good friend , keep them close . never take advantage of anyone its just not worth i. for whatever selfish reason it really isnt worth it i really agree with you:)

oh and im 15

Wow. You just summed up exactly the way I am feeling right now. Everything you said was pretty much spot on. I don't know why finding people who you can truly trust is so hard, it's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

woah you wrote a book there and youll be ok if he was your friend he wouldnt of said that stuff

I have friends like that like they are dead on and wont say nothing to you and as soon as other friends come along they join a band wagon of slabering and told my friend something and he said that he wouldnt tell no one and then he told him and no i regret telling him and it was very personal no one knew not even my family knew what i thinking and he did and he went and told people now i just dont tell people nothing and i think now before i say things and do things so that they cant say nothing about me no more

Establish wrote Wow. You just summed up exactly the way I am feeling right now. Everything you said was pretty much spot on. I don't know why finding people who you can truly trust is so hard, it's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

I suppose you could use that as a comparison,
Life is just a giant haystack, and every single needle you're able to find is almost like a treasure.
Whether it be an achievement you've earned in life, a milestone, or a friend.

I know exactly what you're talking about. I've gone through this situation many times, with one friend in particular. We play hockey together, you'd swear we're best friends. But around other kids, he acts as if I'm a worthless piece of trash. It's a terrible thing to go through, but you just have to realize that it's just the way society is. Nothing you can do to change it. The quicker you find out who you can trust, the better.