but getting the police involved is civil

punch his asss in the face gain your respect they'll leave you alone works every time i joke you not

Dont let it bother you. Bullies pick on other people cause theyre insecure.

th3bagofdirt wrote Well i just dont want to seem like a b***h. They were my good friends until they stabbed me in the back. I dont really want to get them in trouble i just want this to stop. Its uncalled for.

Dude there not your friends not being mean just block them or just tell the police but one of the best ways if you dont know them that well irl anymore just turn off the computer/consle whatever it may be... If they don't stop go to this website as well [ Register or Signin to view external links. ]

Good luck and have a good new year

You see, there is a benefit to being bullied on the Internet.

If it's on Facebook, you have the option and ability to block them. You're not forced to be on a particular website either so if it's bothering you badly? Close out of your browser, or end the application process and walk outside, or go hang out with friends or family and be with people who love you for who you are. While I've never been bullied myself by others, I do think it's wrong and I don't condone the actions of those that belittle others as a source for their entertainment or for them to feel "superior" as it's a very cowardly act. If blocking them online doesn't help you, and you're forced to deal with it at school? Tell an adult (as much as you may not want to do this, it's the best thing to do) and they'll handle the situation for you. If a police officer talks to them and they still harass you and give you problems, then tell the police again and they'll handle it accordingly. Sure it may seem like a "weak" way to handle it but it's the smartest way to, and probably the easiest. If you're concerned with getting them in trouble, you're not forced to press charges and you could easily just get cops to warn them and in most cases - it might just work in your favor.

th3bagofdirt wrote Well i just dont want to seem like a b***h. They were my good friends until they stabbed me in the back. I dont really want to get them in trouble i just want this to stop. Its uncalled for.

Key word here: Until.


You might not want it to escalate to this, but "until" they stop treating you the way you do? You have every right to get any help you need. You shouldn't honestly care about impressing those that don't even respect you for who you are in the first place, whether you made a simple mistake to them or not they should still respect you. It's clear to me that you want it to stop, and you've already talked to a cop, so you know it's the right thing to do - so why do you care about their feelings if they can't even consider yours?



Just a thought. Think about it.. As someone who has taken the opposite way of handling things in my past (I'm 20 years old now) I look at fighting to solve a situation as petty and immature, and not worth the time nor trouble. Call the cops, let them handle it.

keep getting help from the police cause bullying is not rigght

xMasterJPx wrote but getting the police involved is civil

It also the easy way out i wont get my answers to my ?s but im never going to trust them again believe me there. They lost my trust when the felt it nessesary to be as vile as they were

I have blocked them but they are useing all of my other friends against me to. So truly i have no one to talk to and im sad but i just need a friend to speak to that they dont know.

th3bagofdirt wrote I have blocked them but they are useing all of my other friends against me to. So truly i have no one to talk to and im sad but i just need a friend to speak to that they dont know.

the best person to talk to is yourself you know what you want so act on it i personally think you should beat the living sh*t out of him that would be my first instinct dude yourr not getting it "TELL SOMEONE!"

th3bagofdirt wrote I have blocked them but they are useing all of my other friends against me to. So truly i have no one to talk to and im sad but i just need a friend to speak to that they dont know.

If you need someone to talk to,

Feel free to PM me anytime. I'm pretty good at giving advice, and I'm willing to be there at any time if you need it and though I'm not a friend, I'm pretty understanding with things and I can relate to pretty much anything as I've experienced a lot myself growing up. If you're uncomfortable doing this - talk to your school counselor or even a guardian/teacher that you can trust. So many options.