thanks i would rep you guys if i had any

You can so get a gift back... what are you people talking about.

If a credit card was used you can always call up your CC company and reverse the payment.

Your question doesn't make much sense either. You didn't say who sent what. That person will still have the transaction in their recent transaction list and proof it was sent. He can't lie about it.

if i sent a note with the payment saying , no reversing payment or something like that?

Shaarawy- wrote if i sent a note with the payment saying , no reversing payment or something like that?

Call them up tell them it was a unauthorized action on your account, Paypal will hold the money and do a investigation which most times ends with you getting a refund