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Who won the argument?

Me
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Argument with Boyfriend, Who wins?
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Me and my boyfriend got into an argument, it started when we went to go watch The Evil Dead with 3 of his friends (which are girls and 1 guy) I was talking with them and ECT but after the movie they started to talk about stuff that I had no idea what to say, so I kept quite the whole time and read my manga until we went home, come to find out that his friends were mad at me the whole time, I asked "What for?" they said I was being to "Anti-Social". They were having fun with their own conversation without me so idk what the big deal was. I can't read my manga without having to talk to them every minute? Was I right that It was not my fault that i could no relate to the conversation so I minded my own business? or was he right for being to "Anti-Social"?
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I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.
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Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"
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Realistically the only person you should have payed any attention to was your bf, so who cares what they say
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theres nothing wrong with it so just don't listen to them
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TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

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Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.
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TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

Well that's dumb. He was having conversations that you knew nothing about so you respected him and did something else. He then doesn't respect how you see the current situation. Not cool. I personally say it's his problem. Not talking to you can only make things worse. No reason for him to be mad though. Did he even try to include to you into the conversations? He should create conversations with you and then tried to get them to join in.
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Being forced into conversation and pointing out useless things makes you sound dumb, myself I'm not the biggest talker. I'm quite shy and I prefer to just keep quiet. If there's a conversation I have knowledge in then yes, I would talk about it. But no, it's not your fault. In my opinion people who talk but don't know what they are talking about is annoying. I respect people who keep to themselves.
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Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog
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TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog

I wouldn't even waste my time. Simple as that. I spent a year in a relationship where I was abused and cheated on. I'm one of those huge dudes that you would never suspect would happen to, but I never hit women, so my girlfriend used to hit me all the time.
You just have to learn from mistakes and move on.

As far as the argument, you had a more valid point.
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