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Who won the argument?

Me
71.43% (5 votes)
Boyfriend
28.57% (2 votes)

Total Votes: 7

#11. Posted:
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Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog

I wouldn't even waste my time. Simple as that. I spent a year in a relationship where I was abused and cheated on. I'm one of those huge dudes that you would never suspect would happen to, but I never hit women, so my girlfriend used to hit me all the time.
You just have to learn from mistakes and move on.

As far as the argument, you had a more valid point.


Im sorry about what happen to you, i'm a softy and probably would cry a lot, I dated 4 people that only lasted a week, and I still cried when they broke up with me, it's weird, i cant learn to harden my personality
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TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog

I wouldn't even waste my time. Simple as that. I spent a year in a relationship where I was abused and cheated on. I'm one of those huge dudes that you would never suspect would happen to, but I never hit women, so my girlfriend used to hit me all the time.
You just have to learn from mistakes and move on.

As far as the argument, you had a more valid point.


Im sorry about what happen to you, i'm a softy and probably would cry a lot, I dated 4 people that only lasted a week, and I still cried when they broke up with me, it's weird, i cant learn to harden my personality

It's fine. I'm an ass now, I typically don't have issues cutting connections with people. That's what I would advise you to do however. I wasted my life and high school career by not doing so. I'm 18 now and most of my friends left because of it, the sooner you learn the better.

Alright. I'm going to bed. Good luck!
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Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog

I wouldn't even waste my time. Simple as that. I spent a year in a relationship where I was abused and cheated on. I'm one of those huge dudes that you would never suspect would happen to, but I never hit women, so my girlfriend used to hit me all the time.
You just have to learn from mistakes and move on.

As far as the argument, you had a more valid point.


Im sorry about what happen to you, i'm a softy and probably would cry a lot, I dated 4 people that only lasted a week, and I still cried when they broke up with me, it's weird, i cant learn to harden my personality

It's fine. I'm an ass now, I typically don't have issues cutting connections with people. That's what I would advise you to do however. I wasted my life and high school career by not doing so. I'm 18 now and most of my friends left because of it, the sooner you learn the better.

Alright. I'm going to bed. Good luck!


I also need to be meaner I guess. Thank you! good night
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TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Kerrigan wrote
TrevisAgena wrote
Yin wrote I'm anti-social, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you have nothing to say, why talk? People get mad over simple, little things. I would say don't worry with it. I know I wouldn't.


That is the exact reason why he got mad and stop texting me, after I said, "I could care less what people think of me"

It's idiotic to force someone to converse in a topic they can't relate to. I wouldn't even think of doing it, it just wouldn't make sense.
I'm not sure how old you are, but as you mature you'll realize people like aren't worth your time. They either understand and let it go, or continue on. If he got mad and stopped texting you after that, it isn't worth your time.

Save you a hell of a lot of time in the future. I wasted a good 3 or 4 years in relationships that weren't going anywhere.

EDIT:
Since it seems like I'm giving a different type of advice here, relationships are a two way street. The sooner you realize that "winning" an argument isn't a good thing, the better off you are.


That's nice advice and don't worry, im not using this to see if I "win" or "lose" the argument, I just didnt know what to do with myself since he called me a Female dog

I wouldn't even waste my time. Simple as that. I spent a year in a relationship where I was abused and cheated on. I'm one of those huge dudes that you would never suspect would happen to, but I never hit women, so my girlfriend used to hit me all the time.
You just have to learn from mistakes and move on.

As far as the argument, you had a more valid point.


Im sorry about what happen to you, i'm a softy and probably would cry a lot, I dated 4 people that only lasted a week, and I still cried when they broke up with me, it's weird, i cant learn to harden my personality

It's not weird at all. It's normal/human. It hurts. If it doesn't hurt you, you must have not had your heart in it. There is no problem being "soft." Some of the best people have that soft spot, but they just have the courage to keep going. As long as you do that, there is no problem.
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i actually laughed when i read this, you won:D
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So his friends were talking about something which you had to interest in and he called you 'Anti-Social'?

Well I would do the sort of thing you did, I dont really like talking to people and if its usually a stupid topic they're talking about I would ignore them.
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