Arni wrote well im going with xbox. the main reason is that xbox has a nice controller and xbox live is way better

Yeah same here. Playstation's online connecting system is terrible. I would think it's going to get better with the PS4 but I doubt it will be even close to xbox live. Xbox live is just overall a better online experience. It doesn't really matter about the hardware since the games are going to made equally for each console. Sony apparently has better hardware but still going to use disks to play the games which will slow down the game compared to downloading it. At E3 the only Sony exclusive I saw that looked cool was the Tom Clancy game and that might be for all consoles (not sure). Also dedicated servers is going to be amazing! Haven't heard anything about that on Sony's end but I guess they are still doing host based system. Seems like if you have an internet connection then the One will be better but if you don't go for the PS4.

im also a current 360 holder and will also be getting the PS4