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Two of my closest friends have fallen out over a petty reason and now one keeps sending me messages to send to the other because the other has blocked him on Skype, BBM and XBL.

Doesn't It annoy you when friends fall out and YOU have to send them messages one to the other? I tell them I am not being the messenger and they do it anyway :/. It is frustrating.

Does this happen to any of you people out there?

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On A Daily Sadly I Have To Put Up With My Friends Fighting
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Had this happen to me a lot it is frustrating, especially if you want your two mates to be friends again! normally it ends up they become friends again if its a petty reason im sure everything will be back to normal soon when they realize they're arguing over something not worth it
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con wrote Had this happen to me a lot it is frustrating, especially if you want your two mates to be friends again! normally it ends up they become friends again if its a petty reason im sure everything will be back to normal soon when they realize they're arguing over something not worth it


That's the thing, I am concerned about the two of them. One told me he really dispises the other person now, in retrospect, he never wants to speak to him again.

This isn't the first time this has happened, And back then I was the messenger and I had to pick a side. I said no and told them to work it out. They did. Now I don't think it will be this easy...
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con wrote Had this happen to me a lot it is frustrating, especially if you want your two mates to be friends again! normally it ends up they become friends again if its a petty reason im sure everything will be back to normal soon when they realize they're arguing over something not worth it


That's the thing, I am concerned about the two of them. One told me he really dispises the other person now, in retrospect, he never wants to speak to him again.


Have they been friends long?
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con wrote
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con wrote Had this happen to me a lot it is frustrating, especially if you want your two mates to be friends again! normally it ends up they become friends again if its a petty reason im sure everything will be back to normal soon when they realize they're arguing over something not worth it


That's the thing, I am concerned about the two of them. One told me he really dispises the other person now, in retrospect, he never wants to speak to him again.


Have they been friends long?


They known each other long before I met both of them, so yeah. A long time.
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con wrote
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con wrote Had this happen to me a lot it is frustrating, especially if you want your two mates to be friends again! normally it ends up they become friends again if its a petty reason im sure everything will be back to normal soon when they realize they're arguing over something not worth it


That's the thing, I am concerned about the two of them. One told me he really dispises the other person now, in retrospect, he never wants to speak to him again.


Have they been friends long?


They known each other long before I met both of them, so yeah. A long time.


Then am sure they will figure a way to sort it out themselves just leave them to it, if theyve sorted a problem out before then am sure they can sort it out again and friends just dont stop being friends over petty things
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They only began being friends again because I made them realise theres more to life than being grumpy at one another. I like them both a lot and they need to work it out, even though I feel they might not.
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Happens literally every other week. It makes me want to not talk to both of them.
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Im sure they will work something out just stay positive

Iv personally had many a fall out with my friends over petty things but we always end up making up somehow even if it took time
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