this happens to me alot! its so annoying

It's annoying as hell. I hate being a messenger. But, when it is a argument. It's 10 times worse. I just tell em both "You both are being aggravating. Just drop it, or find a new messenger."
Hope this could help.

HAhaha I'm sorry man. I'm usually the one arguing. My friend hates being a messenger.

-Ashley wrote Two of my closest friends have fallen out over a petty reason and now one keeps sending me messages to send to the other because the other has blocked him on Skype, BBM and XBL.

Doesn't It annoy you when friends fall out and YOU have to send them messages one to the other? I tell them I am not being the messenger and they do it anyway :/. It is frustrating.

Does this happen to any of you people out there?

I'm assuming you are like me and want to help everyone you can. It seems that way anyway.

Let me tell you now though, the sooner you realize this will only cause you issues, the better your life will be.

They may give you a message to send, simple, refuse to get involved.

I've been in so many situations like this, I just refuse now.

I hate being put in the middle of arguments.. it's just annoying and especially when they are both pressuring you to pick a side.

Not a problem to me, I just kill a ***** .

Kerrigan wrote

-Ashley wrote Two of my closest friends have fallen out over a petty reason and now one keeps sending me messages to send to the other because the other has blocked him on Skype, BBM and XBL.

Doesn't It annoy you when friends fall out and YOU have to send them messages one to the other? I tell them I am not being the messenger and they do it anyway :/. It is frustrating.

Does this happen to any of you people out there?

I'm assuming you are like me and want to help everyone you can. It seems that way anyway.

Let me tell you now though, the sooner you realize this will only cause you issues, the better your life will be.

They may give you a message to send, simple, refuse to get involved.

I've been in so many situations like this, I just refuse now.

I try to help as many people as possible, while trying to maintain being on the good side of everybody. Sometimes this blows up in my face.

Last time I sent them messages that they wanted me to send, one blamed me for the argument. Like Really? I don't deserve to be treated like that. So I made them become friends again. But now I feel this is out of my reach... and that I cannot do anything for them, and that puts me down.

that's when you say you dont want tk be involved or take sides, and for them to tell you when they settle it.

Whenever this happens to me I tell them to eff off and sort it out themselves. Sometimes they get annoyed at me for a week or two, but then they apologize to each other and me too.

This used to happen to me when i was younger (around 13) but whenever people tell me to tell someone something because they don't want to talk to them i just say no. It really shouldn't happen because you aren't a part of the problem so you shouldn't be dragged into it. If they try to be like "dude what the heck why are you not helping me blah blah" i just tell them it's their problem not mine.


I have actually had a few situations where i have lost friends because of things like this, it's so dumb. I absolutely hate being a middle mad in communication.