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Stuck in a Dillemma..Relationship(s)
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Right, see..My mate (His name is Liam)
He has feeling for this girl who is in a relationship already,and a pretty solid one. He told the girl (Her name is Elisha) that he had feelings for her and now she doesn't speak to him much. The way in which she speaks to him isn't bad, she isn't harsh or anything but she barely speaks to him. However Elisha speaks to me alot, and Liam gets somewhat annoyed by this. Basically right before I spit out a massive story, he tends to wonder why people stop speaking to him, and comes to me because they all speak to me alot. I don't know what to say to him, most of the time the girls just say to me how they are sorta "Creeped" out by the way he acts and sorta offended by how he can easily just tell a girl that he has feelings for them and be disrespectful towards them if he doesn't get the answer he wants. he doesn't seem to think hes doing anything wrong. He can be with Elisha and her Boyfriend and hell compliment Elisha in an inappropriate way. Or he said to Elisha's Boyfriend, "If she wasn't going out with you, she'd be mine". And yet he wonders why people stop talking to him, I want to say something But I just don't know what to say.
Thought so of you guys might have something in mind!
He has feeling for this girl who is in a relationship already,and a pretty solid one. He told the girl (Her name is Elisha) that he had feelings for her and now she doesn't speak to him much. The way in which she speaks to him isn't bad, she isn't harsh or anything but she barely speaks to him. However Elisha speaks to me alot, and Liam gets somewhat annoyed by this. Basically right before I spit out a massive story, he tends to wonder why people stop speaking to him, and comes to me because they all speak to me alot. I don't know what to say to him, most of the time the girls just say to me how they are sorta "Creeped" out by the way he acts and sorta offended by how he can easily just tell a girl that he has feelings for them and be disrespectful towards them if he doesn't get the answer he wants. he doesn't seem to think hes doing anything wrong. He can be with Elisha and her Boyfriend and hell compliment Elisha in an inappropriate way. Or he said to Elisha's Boyfriend, "If she wasn't going out with you, she'd be mine". And yet he wonders why people stop talking to him, I want to say something But I just don't know what to say.
Thought so of you guys might have something in mind!
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I have a friend who is very blunt, whether it be advice or just his general opinion. I think you just need to be blunt about it. Tell him straight up why people don't want to talk to him. Either he will learn, or he never will. I don't think he will have a chance to change if he never knows. Dude does sound kind of messed up though. I know I'd get kind of irritated if I was the boyfriend. Not cool.
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