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I hate my dad so much
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Sorry if this is the wrong forum or category, but I have no were to vent or ill break my sober ness. It all started maybe when I was younger? I don't know but im 15, and it's just getting old , my dad acts like
He's the funniest person in the world and I hate it! He's cheating on my mom and she's to oblivious to notice. But the real hatred started in 8th grade. I was in the kitchen making a sandwich when I saw a little plastic bag sticking out if his wallet stand ( it has multiple secret compartments) I saw and it was a plastic bag filled with " broccoli" I'm not gonna say what due to legal reasons but that made me wanna try it so I bought some off a kid at school and tried it, it was awesome. I maintained a 4.0 GPa until now, but my dad caught me around the end of 8th and threatened to file a police report on me and then I stopped then started. He doesn't know anything right now, but it's annoying because im feel like he constantly looks for things to yell at me and when he doesn't find anything he does something then blames it on me! But what happend today pushed me to write this, I take jiu jutsu and I go twice a week, and that's my minimum according to my mom, I said i don't want to go today and my mom went to tell him ( I've went 4 times this week) and he went into my room and yelled YOU HAVE NO CHOICE ! I'm done with him, from now on I won't be dependent on him I will only talk to him when he talks to me, other then that I'm done with him
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he just worried about you.
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If hes that bad, talk to a counselor.
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Your reasoning of stating that you dislike your dad is too vague. All I've comprehended from the story is that your dad filed a police report, refused to let you miss Jujitsu class, and your dad is having an affair on your mother and she's fully aware of it. For starters, you can't be enraged by your dad for calling the police solely because you smoked marijuana as a minor. Second, martial art classes are expensive man, I can see from his perspective point of view of why he didn't let you skip out on class. Third, your mom apparently has no motivation to leave your dad, it's ludicrous for your mom not to divorce him . If there's other details left out of story of him being a neglecting father, contact social services or your counselor.
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Finnish wrote Third, your mom apparently has no motivation to leave your dad, it's ludicrous for your mom not to divorce him .


Your father cheating on your mother is a valid reason to dislike him, lol.
Even if she knows it is happening.
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Lavish wrote
Finnish wrote Third, your mom apparently has no motivation to leave your dad, it's ludicrous for your mom not to divorce him .


Your father cheating on your mother is a valid reason to dislike him, lol.
Even if she knows it is happening.


Actually, he wrote "and she's too oblivious to notice", so she doesn't know it's going on. I would also build up a lot of anger and possibly hatred towards my dad if I knew he was being unfaithful to my mom, and lying to her about it (not telling the truth). Honestly, I'd just tell her even if it will hurt her. Sooner or later she'll find out what's going on.

@OP, I just suggest you chill and talk to someone about it. Maybe you're close with your grandmother, aunt or even some teacher at school. Building up all that anger and not having anyone to tell it to is dangerous and can lead to some nasty things. Again, just try to calm down and talk to someone about it.

Hope that helps out.
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Damn there are people in the world who kill for a caring father like yours, spend more father-son time with him and you'll come to like him more im sure.
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this is just stupid, no reason to hate your dad at all you only get 2 parents love them while you can, i bet you're the kind of person that complains and says you hate your parents because they get you an iphone 4 instead of 5
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So you stole you're dads weed?
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If he's really that bad. Go and talk to someone about it.
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