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ok i feel like getting this out my school is overpopulated with close minded kids i got in trouble like in 3rd grade all the way up to 7th in 7th i got really mad because of kids trying to bully me and lets just say i lost it and realy hurt 3 kids and i went to juvie for a year and 3 months i get out i have the same problems my home life was not the best i was abused everyday back then and they still mess with me i have severe anger problems and im struggling to keep my cool my girlfriend does not like me fighting and i don't like fighting just everyone's has a breaking point just like if you push a fox in a corner its gonna attack everyone has a breaking point i was wondering what you guys do to cope because i feel like im gonna lose my mind if i go to school i have not been in 5 days because i know i will lose it by the way im 16 i just turned 16 1/11/98 plz give feedback i need it
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I've never really been i your spot, so it's kind of hard to me to give you really accurate advice on what you should do.
I think you should just focus on yourself, and try to better yourself and become a better person in general. Be the bigger man and just try to ignore those who make your life miserable. Trust me, if you just ignore those who try to put you down, eventually they'll realize that what they say/do doesn't bother you anymore, so they'll just leave.
I understand how it feels to be surrounded by people, yet feel completely alone. Try to focus on your studies and become the person you know you can be, and that will pay off in the long run. Trying to beat people up won't help you at all, and will just make things very difficult for you.
Hope that helps
I think you should just focus on yourself, and try to better yourself and become a better person in general. Be the bigger man and just try to ignore those who make your life miserable. Trust me, if you just ignore those who try to put you down, eventually they'll realize that what they say/do doesn't bother you anymore, so they'll just leave.
I understand how it feels to be surrounded by people, yet feel completely alone. Try to focus on your studies and become the person you know you can be, and that will pay off in the long run. Trying to beat people up won't help you at all, and will just make things very difficult for you.
Hope that helps
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Don't live in the fear of other's dogma, they aren't you. The past and future are irrelevant as well, focus on what is happening right now dude, who gives a **** of what they claim to say who you are, they're most likely insecure of themselves and love to lash their hatred on others for pleasure. I hope life treats you better than it has been, friend.
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"I hope you get out of this dark place, and feel better. I will love you forever, and whatever is eating at you I hope you can overcome it." -David Harris
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Alright well I have noticed I am very strong willed, and able to hide everything. Im really not sure how I just do. I dont let anyone see anything bother me, although I am very aggressive and violent. I have never gotten in a legit fight, but I do threaten people quite often. ....
Also be the bigger person snide remarks wont hurt you when u know they are not true, and if they are a nice "thank you, I wouldn't expect much more from you" or make more of a good comeback thats funny that makes the person look like an idiot.
Just gotta stay calm.
Working out helps kill anger.
Also be the bigger person snide remarks wont hurt you when u know they are not true, and if they are a nice "thank you, I wouldn't expect much more from you" or make more of a good comeback thats funny that makes the person look like an idiot.
Just gotta stay calm.
Working out helps kill anger.
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thanks guys i still cant go back i went for a meeting they said they dont trust me due to my past behaviors but i do work out but not anymore i dont have the money to go to the gym nor a ride my weight lifting teacher at school really wants me to go he said i could help him out bu the school will not allow me to go back and thanks so much for the feedback guys i needed some advice and i try to ignore but my feeling take over aand sometimes i black out so to be honest i dont even trust myself
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