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Lesbians = Hot / Gays = Ew ?
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I've seen this all over the place, even on this site in the past, where someone will say something along the lines of 'Lesbians are OK because they're hot, gay men? that's just weird though.'
The fact that many people are homophobic due to religion, and all major western religions state that homosexuality is wrong, period. This makes absolutely no sense to me and is one of the most annoying double standards that I have come across.
If you think like this ^ and you aren't religious, and use the arguments of 'It's just unnatural' but then you go and watch lesbians getting it on, you are a gigantic hypocrite.
The fact that many people are homophobic due to religion, and all major western religions state that homosexuality is wrong, period. This makes absolutely no sense to me and is one of the most annoying double standards that I have come across.
If you think like this ^ and you aren't religious, and use the arguments of 'It's just unnatural' but then you go and watch lesbians getting it on, you are a gigantic hypocrite.
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I would say that it is more straight guys that will say this. Obviously if a guy is attracted to girls, he is going to find it hot if there is a lesbian couple. Obviously straight guys aren't attracted to guys, so they won't find it hot if you know what I mean.
Thats just what I think.
I could honestly care less what somebody else is into. Its not really my choice to make.
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Thats just what I think.
I could honestly care less what somebody else is into. Its not really my choice to make.
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You are so right. It's okay to be "gay" if you are a girl but not for guy?
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I don't like it when people make post about "GAYS" in a bad way. But, anyways my brother is Homosexual so yeah. There's nothing wrong about that. I totally agree with you on this topic though. Have A Great Day!
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Im changing everything I said to this because I dont want to get hate...
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i loves me some nice lesbians but i dont disrespect the fact the same gender like eachother i think its disgusting but i cant help that what ever makes them happy let em be. aslong as we all happy theres no need to complain
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I'm not bashing religious people. I'm Christian myself, I was raised as a Christian, I just don't believe. Anyway, I somehow got into a debate with a very religious Christian man about homosexuals. I asked him "Are gay men wrong?" and he said yes. I then asked, "Do you think two girls together is hot?" and he said yes. If you think this way, you're a moron. It's literally the same thing.
There's nothing wrong with gay men, nothing wrong with lesbians, nothing wrong with bisexual people and nothing wrong with straight people.
There's nothing wrong with gay men, nothing wrong with lesbians, nothing wrong with bisexual people and nothing wrong with straight people.
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Coming from a pansexual here is my opinion on this, take it with a pinch of salt.
I find all kinds of homophobia massively disgusting. Coming from a country littered with racists and homophobes my life on a day to day basis can be a massive pile of crap. I started by just telling my friends but the second I openly said it my life changed for the worst.
Now around the same time a girl came out that she was a bisexual and got massive respect and attention and not a bad word furrowed her brow. Its not just guys either so the argument that guys don't like gay guys but gay girls because they're girls, because girls are the same to me and other friends I know who've came out. They look at them like they're nothing, both genders look at gay guys like they're dirt yet both genders look at lesbian girls like they're amazing.
However you have to keep in mind, and this is what I tell myself, is that guys who make fun of gays are not comfortable in their sexuality or are in the closet themselves and need a way to prove their masculinity. Which although I find pathetic is a bit of a better reason to get bullied to hell.
However my opinion on this matter is that no one should be called out or feel different for being themselves. Being gay is just like choosing to do something you do daily in your life in a way. Its something they feel comfortable as and its something that makes them feel right. How'd homophobes like it if we called them out and made fun of them all day every day for being straight? How'd they like it if we made THEIR life misery for being themselves?
Exactly, they wouldn't. The old saying treat others how you'd like to be treated rings true. You know a minor detail about them, you don't know their story. Stop judging and learn to treat people how you'd like to be treated. An equal. Its all we want and its all anyone wants. Some people just don't understand that.
I find all kinds of homophobia massively disgusting. Coming from a country littered with racists and homophobes my life on a day to day basis can be a massive pile of crap. I started by just telling my friends but the second I openly said it my life changed for the worst.
Now around the same time a girl came out that she was a bisexual and got massive respect and attention and not a bad word furrowed her brow. Its not just guys either so the argument that guys don't like gay guys but gay girls because they're girls, because girls are the same to me and other friends I know who've came out. They look at them like they're nothing, both genders look at gay guys like they're dirt yet both genders look at lesbian girls like they're amazing.
However you have to keep in mind, and this is what I tell myself, is that guys who make fun of gays are not comfortable in their sexuality or are in the closet themselves and need a way to prove their masculinity. Which although I find pathetic is a bit of a better reason to get bullied to hell.
However my opinion on this matter is that no one should be called out or feel different for being themselves. Being gay is just like choosing to do something you do daily in your life in a way. Its something they feel comfortable as and its something that makes them feel right. How'd homophobes like it if we called them out and made fun of them all day every day for being straight? How'd they like it if we made THEIR life misery for being themselves?
Exactly, they wouldn't. The old saying treat others how you'd like to be treated rings true. You know a minor detail about them, you don't know their story. Stop judging and learn to treat people how you'd like to be treated. An equal. Its all we want and its all anyone wants. Some people just don't understand that.
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Boar wrote Coming from a pansexual here is my opinion on this, take it with a pinch of salt.I agree with this post so much. Well, I;m not personally pansexual but no hate. I know a lot of lesbians, homosexuals and bisexual people. The girls all get respect for coming clean and being honest when the majority of the time, the guys get hate for it. I actually know a few girls who pretend to be bi-sexual for the attention which is also pathetic.
I find all kinds of homophobia massively disgusting. Coming from a country littered with racists and homophobes my life on a day to day basis can be a massive pile of crap. I started by just telling my friends but the second I openly said it my life changed for the worst.
Now around the same time a girl came out that she was a bisexual and got massive respect and attention and not a bad word furrowed her brow. Its not just guys either so the argument that guys don't like gay guys but gay girls because they're girls, because girls are the same to me and other friends I know who've came out. They look at them like they're nothing, both genders look at gay guys like they're dirt yet both genders look at lesbian girls like they're amazing.
However you have to keep in mind, and this is what I tell myself, is that guys who make fun of gays are not comfortable in their sexuality or are in the closet themselves and need a way to prove their masculinity. Which although I find pathetic is a bit of a better reason to get bullied to hell.
However my opinion on this matter is that no one should be called out or feel different for being themselves. Being gay is just like choosing to do something you do daily in your life in a way. Its something they feel comfortable as and its something that makes them feel right. How'd homophobes like it if we called them out and made fun of them all day every day for being straight? How'd they like it if we made THEIR life misery for being themselves?
Exactly, they wouldn't. The old saying treat others how you'd like to be treated rings true. You know a minor detail about them, you don't know their story. Stop judging and learn to treat people how you'd like to be treated. An equal. Its all we want and its all anyone wants. Some people just don't understand that.
In fact, my ex claimed she was bi-sexual. Now, if she actually was, I'd be fine with that but she wasn't, you could tell by the way she talked/acted etc that she wasn't actually bi-sexual. It was frustrating that she was attention seeking because I hate people like that, yet here I was dating one..!
Also,the girls that befriend homosexual guys because they want a "gay friend" to go "shoe shopping" with and all that crap. Stupid stereotypical stuff and these girls think they're better than everyone else because they accept that the person is homosexual even though they're actually being disrespectful.
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It's really who you talk too, ofcourse guys would say being gay is 'ew' if it's two men, because the individual you asked is probably not gay and would see to men being odd.
Ask the same man if two girls are 'ew' he would say no, because he is attracted to women.
Ask a women if two gay guys are hot, she would say 'cute'.
I mean, it also depends on if the couple are goodlooking, because boys say the lesbians in porn are hot, because it wouldn't be uploaded if they weren't.
Same with guys, there is gay guy porn and women would be the outstanding viewers.
Ask the same man if two girls are 'ew' he would say no, because he is attracted to women.
Ask a women if two gay guys are hot, she would say 'cute'.
I mean, it also depends on if the couple are goodlooking, because boys say the lesbians in porn are hot, because it wouldn't be uploaded if they weren't.
Same with guys, there is gay guy porn and women would be the outstanding viewers.
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