Prohibit wrote It doesn't seem like it's as bad as anxiety. I have had social anxiety for a few years now and it is very different and more intense.

It's only shyness, it's normal don't worry especially when you're trying to talk to someone you really like for the first time! Just think of as many questions as you can and ask away. Eventually she'll begin talking back properly and you'll get a conversation when you mention something you both like or have in common. Good luck.

This everyone gets nervous the first time they speak to a girl they like cos you don't wanna mess up haha, think of what you wanna say in your head beforehand so it's not awkward but don't make it robotic

Lenin wrote Yo, You need to chill man. I mean have a smoke ad tht

That's exactly what caused my Anxiety lol

I said just **** it. Once you do it you dont have any more fear.(At least that how it was for me)

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This is completely normal, I think most guys get this before talking to a girl they really really like.

If shes likes you too, she is probably nervous too. Just talk to her casually, and I know it's easier said than done, but try not to think about it.

If you get over the initial nervous stages of talking to her, everything will be fine from then onwards.

Good luck.

I have a similar problem. I always become really shy and don't know how to act. I guess my best advice would be this: you act yourself when talking to her on facebook, and she digs it. So whenever you're axtually with her, just keep in mind that she likes you for who you are. Once you get that into your head, everything will start to go naturally. It's the nerves but you gotta think that she's into you. You'll be solid man. Straight up even tell her that you're shy around her, kinda shows her you care about her opinion of you. Chances are she'll give you crap about it and it'll start flowing well.