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So I'm usually the guy to give people money that need it. Like, at my school for an example. I give people a couple dollars all the time to buy lunch that usually don't have the money to do so and I even giveaway money online. But it seems people only want to be my friend when I have money. Any other time they don't want to have anything to do with me. Im fine with giving money away but when people only want to talk to me when I have money to giveaway is just irratating and it really disappoints me. This has been on my chest for a while now and I just needed to say my opinions.

/rant over.

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BENDZY (03-13-2015)
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I got money and very few friends, the same friends have been around when i was broke and when i am doing just fine ;)
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Same, if people need lunch money ill give it to them.
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Feeding someone because they can't afford it is fine.

Buying them things online unless you're in a "special" form of relationship is odd. At least to me.
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I agree with you dude, I hate people that do stuff like that. I only have very few friends and keep them close as anything.
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same, my friends mostly always have money but when they dont i give them money because i ALWAYS keep money on me, but yeah, there are people who literally just try to mooch because they know that i have money
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Raced wrote So I'm usually the guy to give people money that need it. Like, at my school for an example. I give people a couple dollars all the time to buy lunch that usually don't have the money to do so and I even giveaway money online. But it seems people only want to be my friend when I have money. Any other time they don't want to have anything to do with me. Im fine with giving money away but when people only want to talk to me when I have money to giveaway is just irratating and it really disappoints me. This has been on my chest for a while now and I just needed to say my opinions.

/rant over.

Don't let people use you for your kind nature and money. Only give money to your friends and what not, as people will just act kind to you because they know you will give it to them.

This is also annoying for me. Money is always tight for me as I am terribad at saving money but I always give money to my friends when they are hungry if I have the money. But, it is expected to pay me back when I need food and if they return the favor, I will continue to help them out, if not, not.
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Stop being the nice guy, dude. I've been there and even though you feel like you're helping your "friends" out, they're just using you because they know you'll give them money. After they found out you're willing to give them your money they'll get used to it and continue asking for it. Just stop giving it to them. On the other hand, giving your money to people in actual need of it would actually be a nice thing to do(homeless, charities, etc..). Ya know?
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