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Hey guys before starting I just want to say sorry for my english, it is not perfect, I am Portuguese
So I'm 16 years old, really shy, and I don't have much friends, I'm always alone sometimes.
Back in November 2014, a girl who has a boyfriend started talking to me and I really liked here, so I kept on talking to her, thinking that nothing bad would happen.
So we talked alot, and after a few months I told her that I loves her, and even made her a cute text
Her boyfriend is 16 too but he is WAY bigger than me, it's looks like a 25 years old guy, seriously
The problem was her boyfriend saw what I send her
After a few weeks he was waiting for me to get off school and he beat me up really bad
I told my parents and whe went to the police and after that everything was fine
My parents told me to stop talking to her, so I did... for 1 or 2 weeks.
I really liked her so I could't just stop talking to her like that, so I kept talking to her, hoping that nothing was going to happen
It's been 3 motnhs now that they broke up, so I told that I wanted to see her.
We went to the park and we kissed and everything.. She says she likes me too
After a few days someone told her Ex boyfriend that we've been kissing and all that
He got really mad and he sending messages on facebook saying that he is going to hurt me real bad or even kill me, he is dangerous, he used to have a knife in is backpack
I have no idea what to do.
I go to school really afraid that something bad will happen to me..
Whats should I do

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If he said he's going to kill you you can report it to the cops.

I doubt he's really going to do anything, I don't see what he would gain, as their relationship already ran it's course, if you feel he really might, you should report it to the cops, or get the jump on him...
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Had the same problem,but since you had reported him before,if he hurts you or anything in that matter he might go to jail considering he 16....
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Yeah, just go to the police with it, thats all you can do!
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Get with the girl, film it, send it to the ex. Really though, if he's threatening you, tell someone that can actually do something, not us. I'm not trying to be harsh, but we can't do anything about it. Tell your parents, tell your friends, tell the girl that her ex is harassing you, or go to the police. What you done when they were together was not right, at all IMO. It was fine to text her and stuff, but doing it behind her boyfriend's back(at the time) would have sucked for him. Now though, you are not in the wrong, at all. I'm almost certain that bringing a knife to school is illegal in Portugal as well, so you know, maybe tell the police since this seems to be like one of those roided up assholes who just want to hurt people for fun, who knows what he could do. Maybe he'll do nothing to you, but attack someone else another time and potentially kill them.

Tell someone.
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You have two options here, you either man up, learn to fight and go for it; or you contact the authorities to get him dealt with.

Either way you need to do something.
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To be honest you shouldn't of send her those texts if you knew she had a boyfriend. I've had someone message my girl before and let's just say they won't be doing it again.

The other stuff I was gonna say is what the majority of the other members have already suggested.
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Getting on a Girls with a Boy Friend How did you think he was going to react..
If he hits you.. Let him then.. hes not going to stab you.
There not together anymore. then Tuff Luck! you get in and hes obviously going to be pissed about it..
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iWolff wrote Hey guys before starting I just want to say sorry for my english, it is not perfect, I am Portuguese
So I'm 16 years old, really shy, and I don't have much friends, I'm always alone sometimes.
Back in November 2014, a girl who has a boyfriend started talking to me and I really liked here, so I kept on talking to her, thinking that nothing bad would happen.
So we talked alot, and after a few months I told her that I loves her, and even made her a cute text
Her boyfriend is 16 too but he is WAY bigger than me, it's looks like a 25 years old guy, seriously
The problem was her boyfriend saw what I send her
After a few weeks he was waiting for me to get off school and he beat me up really bad
I told my parents and whe went to the police and after that everything was fine
My parents told me to stop talking to her, so I did... for 1 or 2 weeks.
I really liked her so I could't just stop talking to her like that, so I kept talking to her, hoping that nothing was going to happen
It's been 3 motnhs now that they broke up, so I told that I wanted to see her.
We went to the park and we kissed and everything.. She says she likes me too
After a few days someone told her Ex boyfriend that we've been kissing and all that
He got really mad and he sending messages on facebook saying that he is going to hurt me real bad or even kill me, he is dangerous, he used to have a knife in is backpack
I have no idea what to do.
I go to school really afraid that something bad will happen to me..
Whats should I do

First and foremost... YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE WHAT YOU PARENTS TOLD YOU AND STOPPED TALKING TO HER. Secondly... go to the police station and show them the messages that you are getting from him (father is a cop, deal with stuff like this all the time) and he will be brought down to the station for questioning and he will spend a couple nights in jail (if you want to charge him and go to court over it) for harassment, attempt to assault, etc etc

They will throw the books at him if he becomes difficult. But, that teaches you to stay away from girls that have boyfriends and that will hopefully teach him you can't make idle threats without consequences.

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AR15 wrote
iWolff wrote Hey guys before starting I just want to say sorry for my english, it is not perfect, I am Portuguese
So I'm 16 years old, really shy, and I don't have much friends, I'm always alone sometimes.
Back in November 2014, a girl who has a boyfriend started talking to me and I really liked here, so I kept on talking to her, thinking that nothing bad would happen.
So we talked alot, and after a few months I told her that I loves her, and even made her a cute text
Her boyfriend is 16 too but he is WAY bigger than me, it's looks like a 25 years old guy, seriously
The problem was her boyfriend saw what I send her
After a few weeks he was waiting for me to get off school and he beat me up really bad
I told my parents and whe went to the police and after that everything was fine
My parents told me to stop talking to her, so I did... for 1 or 2 weeks.
I really liked her so I could't just stop talking to her like that, so I kept talking to her, hoping that nothing was going to happen
It's been 3 motnhs now that they broke up, so I told that I wanted to see her.
We went to the park and we kissed and everything.. She says she likes me too
After a few days someone told her Ex boyfriend that we've been kissing and all that
He got really mad and he sending messages on facebook saying that he is going to hurt me real bad or even kill me, he is dangerous, he used to have a knife in is backpack
I have no idea what to do.
I go to school really afraid that something bad will happen to me..
Whats should I do

First and foremost... YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE WHAT YOU PARENTS TOLD YOU AND STOPPED TALKING TO HER. Secondly... go to the police station and show them the messages that you are getting from him (father is a cop, deal with stuff like this all the time) and he will be brought down to the station for questioning and he will spend a couple nights in jail (if you want to charge him and go to court over it) for harassment, attempt to assault, etc etc

They will throw the books at him if he becomes difficult. But, that teaches you to stay away from girls that have boyfriends and that will hopefully teach him you can't make idle threats without consequences.
you are totally wrong sir !!! so if you love someone really much , you are just gonna let them go ? nah man , just show the police , the police can do alot with that , what that ex-boyfriend sayed to him is illegal , when it is really bad then he could go to prison, so just go to the police , (NOT TRYING TO HATE ON YOU)
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