Bro Ive been in this exact situation! Aye just tell her straight up that you don't feel the same no more but yall could still be friends. And it's gonna take her a while to get over you. But you do your thing bro get with that other girl your young you need different girls in your life.

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Didn't you first go out with this girl because you really liked her etc.?

And now you don't like her anymore
You are going to go for another girl that you really like.

See how this sound familiar? I wouldn't be surprised if you end up losing feelings for this next girl like you did with the first. Especially when she lives far away. And I don't see how you can actually love someone just by talking on the internet, it will be very different in person.

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Ps. Not telling her why you broke up with her and letting her just cry about is a pretty shitty thing to do.

Yeah I did, but I don't wanna sound like a douche, I didn't really like her that much, I knew she liked me so thats why i went out with her to try see if my feelings changed. they did gradually but not to the extent of how much i like this other girl and i've never even met her. I do understand what you're saying but my feelings for this one are so strong its unbelievable :/ Yeah i know it'll be hard af when shes 3 hours away or so

I only have one question, why did you say " I want to know if you guys think I'm an ass" and then you said you don't want any comments calling you an ass?

Dwght wrote I only have one question, why did you say " I want to know if you guys think I'm an ass" and then you said you don't want any comments calling you an ass?

No I said, i want to know if you guys thought it was a dick move/wrong thing to do, i dont want no blunt comments just saying im an asshole.

I have had my girlfriend for almost 7 months now.
Honestly, i doubt i will ever lose feelings for her.

Braking up was the right thing to do, I've been in position with a girlfriend for 2 years, then this other girl came around, I didn't brake up with my girlfriend, I just played it out with both. and It kinda worked out at first, but I just wanted to spend more and more time with the second girl.

and it blew up in my face.. Lost both of them.

you did the right thing, she'd rather be hurt not because you broke up with her, not because you were cheating.

So let me get this straight, you've had a girlfriend you loved for 8 months, 5 days exposed to another girl and you disregard your girlfriend for a stranger you sold something to 5 days ago. Dude you aint committed one bit if you're that vulnerable. You should know better. Smh. But anyway putting that aside , yeah it was the right thing to do , if you have feelings for 2 people, pick the 2nd because if you loved the first, you wouldn't have feelings for the 2nd.

Meninist wrote should have just quickscoped her

Some of your replies I see just have be in stitches haha. Have some rep haha

Im gonna be 100% honest with you here the exact same thing happened to me. I dated a girl for a year and a half and it was on and off and tbh i eventually got bored too dude. Its just the way life rolls out and if you feel like she wasn't the one and the other girl was, Then go for it. At the end of the day we all make mistakes and errors in life (Not saying your ex was a mistake or anything) but i suppose she just wasn't the one dude. Either way its your life, But just make your ex see that it wasn't anything wrong and you just feel like it wasn't really working anymore

Eeesh, Love can be a ass at times.

I can't talk now tho, Ill be getting married soon with my Girl.

But sorry to hear it man.