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Tell your ex that it isn't her fault if she says "Who's is it then?" Then take Meninist advice and quickscope her, make sure to do a couple of spins though.
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It's actually a guy, case closed.
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I was in the same situation. It was bad. You made the right decision though. There is no point in staying in a relationship with someone, if you're not interested in them. It was good that you let her go. Yeah, she is going to cry and feel bad, but it would be worse if you stayed with her. Although, I'm not sure about the girl that you met online. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm all for online relationships, but, I don't think that you want to spend the rest of your life with her after only talking to her for five days. As someone mentioned before, it's probably lust. You like her now, but who knows how much you'll like her a month from now. I'm not trying to discourage you either.

Anyway, if you think that you like this girl that you recently started talking to, then start a friendship with her. Once you guys start talking more, maybe try a relationship. You don't want to try and rush things though. Rushing things is not a good idea, and it will most likely not work. Good luck to you though. I hope that you figure things out and that everything goes well. Feel free to PM if you would like any more help.
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Lyttle wrote It's actually a guy, case closed.

I can see why you'd assume that but from what i've seen so far like pictures and her speaking online etc it seems pretty realistic to me, Obviously im sure paedophiles have software that can make these things seem realistic but I'm 99.99% sure she is real. If it does turn out to be a man then i've been mugged off, but i'll take my chances. Thanks.
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Well you were flirting with another girl whilst you were in a relationship with someone already, and not told them the truth.. if this second girl knew you dumped your girlfriend just in an instant, im not sure she would be so happy. Also you can't tell if you want to be with someone from the rest of your life after 5 days. You have not met this person, don't know anything personal about them or the flaws they posses. People are much different irl from online. So I think it was an immature and silly thing to do.. but that's understandable considering your age.. I would just suggest meeting up with this new person asap before planning anything bigger. But that's just my opinion and hopefully all works out for you anyway..
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If you didn't have feelings for her then I think it's fine and you did the right thing by breaking up with her but I wouldn't have feelings for a girl you only know over the internet, you never know who they are.
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WizKhxlifa wrote
Prohibit wrote
Didn't you first go out with this girl because you really liked her etc.?

And now you don't like her anymore
You are going to go for another girl that you really like.

See how this sound familiar? I wouldn't be surprised if you end up losing feelings for this next girl like you did with the first. Especially when she lives far away. And I don't see how you can actually love someone just by talking on the internet, it will be very different in person.


Ps. Not telling her why you broke up with her and letting her just cry about is a pretty shitty thing to do.

Yeah I did, but I don't wanna sound like a douche, I didn't really like her that much, I knew she liked me so thats why i went out with her to try see if my feelings changed. they did gradually but not to the extent of how much i like this other girl and i've never even met her. I do understand what you're saying but my feelings for this one are so strong its unbelievable :/ Yeah i know it'll be hard af when shes 3 hours away or so

My opinion you was wrong to date your (ex) girlfriend in the start you claimed you really liked her but over time you got bored, now your reversing it in my opinion your just another typical 17 year old, ps you cant actually love someone until you meet them as she could be lying or just playing you you dont know until you meet her and see how she behaves the correct words are you like her, she likes you i still cant stress how wrong it is and how wrong you was in the first place, dating someone just because they like you and you wanted to see if you felt the same , thats wrong you only date someone if your both into eachother, my point is you have now hurt your ex emotionally because you want another girl thats a pretty crappy thing to do, you probably only want the new girl for her looks,i know you said you didnt want comments like dude your a a** but seriously dude your a typical 17 year old a**hole, theres a saying in england upstairs for thinking and downstairs for dancing, looks like you think with your d*** to me bro.
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sorry to hear that! i hope you two didnt work together in same store
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Methylamine wrote
Why not both? Just don't let them see each other.


I dont agree with this just have one and explain to the other that its not going to work and stuff and let her down lightly, then dont have a relationship with the other one for a month or so, to then the your acctuall ex girlfriend doesnt think that you left her for another girl and then it wont cause trouble then everything will be fine.

Just dont get seen with the other girl by your ex girlfriend or its going to get messy trust me ive been in this position and it wernt nice.
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