now you must have your plans set on what you have to do for the rest of your life.

Says who? You're still young and have plenty of time to experiment, grow and find out what you really want to do. Nobody's really expecting you to have your life path carved out at age 19.

Just chill and take things one step at a time

I'm almost in my mid twenties and i'm yet to find that thing i'm going to do for the rest of my life, you have a lot of time ahead of you, i've moved from job to job, progressing through companies etc and am still not at that stage.

Don't threat, you are young, experiment in certain places and roles until you find something you can definitely stick at, never let yourself get tied down.

---

Katsumi wrote

now you must have your plans set on what you have to do for the rest of your life.

Says who? You're still young and have plenty of time to experiment, grow and find out what you really want to do. Nobody's really expecting you to have your life path carved out at age 19.

Just chill and take things one step at a time

Well I just feel pressured from my parents and my family and it grinds my gears that some of my friends have their plans set and done and I really haven't figured it out.

Seam wrote I'm almost in my mid twenties and i'm yet to find that thing i'm going to do for the rest of my life, you have a lot of time ahead of you, i've moved from job to job, progressing through companies etc and am still not at that stage.

Don't threat, you are young, experiment in certain places and roles until you find something you can definitely stick at, never let yourself get tied down.

---

I'm not trying to and I don't wanna be tied to one job as I want many jobs.

I graduated in 2012.

It's crazy how when your in school all people say is how they can't wait to get out of school. But once you actually graduate school and start living life such as a job and paying bills, you think back like damn I wish i was back in school.

It actually sucks. It seems like the years is going by so fast now and you hardly see or talk to any of your school buddies after that.

I went through a few jobs since I graduated and still haven't found something I really want to do for the rest of my life.


For you answer on how you enjoy life after high school, Well one you could get a job and that will take up most of your time or second you could just sit all home and play video games all day.

For me personally when I graduated I took a year off and didn't do shit :ttgcat:

Eli wrote I graduated in 2012.

It's crazy how when your in school all people say is how they can't wait to get out of school. But once you actually graduate school and start living life such as a job and paying bills, you think back like damn I wish i was back in school.

It actually sucks. It seems like the years is going by so fast now and you hardly see or talk to any of your school buddies after that.

Exactly I never talk to the kids from my school anymore, it's sad.

Wakka wrote

Katsumi wrote

now you must have your plans set on what you have to do for the rest of your life.

Says who? You're still young and have plenty of time to experiment, grow and find out what you really want to do. Nobody's really expecting you to have your life path carved out at age 19.

Just chill and take things one step at a time

Well I just feel pressured from my parents and my family and it grinds my gears that some of my friends have their plans set and done and I really haven't figured it out.

Believe me when i say that while pretty much everyone likes to act like they have their shit together, nobody really knows what they're doing. It's cool man, just do you and take things at your own pace.

Tbh i dropped out of one of the best IT scholarships in my country last year 'cause i decided that i didn't want to do it. To everyone around me i was a success and had my shit locked down, but in reality i was just miserable and scared.

Finished school in 2012, went to college, finished that in 2014 and went straight back into school again... I work as an IT Apprentice in school...

Dint have much time to let my hair down, only 3/4 months but I wanted to work and I love working.

I also echo the above. I take my career 1 step at a time. I've opened lots of doors and I can take my time to stroll down any of them.

Don't panic, get your head together and it will be all gravy.

I graduated in '13 and I miss high school.
I rarely talk to any of my friends anymore.

However I do occupy a lot of time between working full-time and going to college part time.
So I'm making a lot more money which is a plus.

I know what I want to do for the rest of my life and I'm slowly taking steps to make it possible when it becomes available to me.

Only thing I don't know about my future is what's going on with my love life, lol.