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Hey everyone,

I know this is TTG but I really need advice from someone older than me. I'm 17 years old and there is this one girl who I'm fairly good friends with but I have no intentions of ever dating her but I feel like she likes me still even though she said she hadn't.

I will say stuff about other girls and she will get absolutely cut even though when she talks about who she likes (idk if she likes them or not) I just go along with it and what not. She keeps asking if I like this one girl (I do and this is part of the story.) So today we had a school gathering and I sat down at the back with someone else and just us two. Then the girl I like comes along and the classes are meant to be sitting down in categories but I'm allowed to sit up the back due to the fact I'm claustrophobic in smaller spaces. So she sits up the back and we talked for a bit and it was good I must admit and she kept peering over at me and such and her and I would laugh at times.

But when I got home and messaged my friend that was a girl about me sitting with the girl I had liked and we actually had spoken she got very agitated and rude. She would make insults towards me and tried to degrade me for some reason even though she apparently does not like me she keeps on saying this sort of stuff and I thought she would of been happy for me because she was telling me to speak to her and such on. Do you think she is trying to set me up for failure?

I'm not sure everyone, I would really love someone older than me to respond to this with their perspective, thanks a lot guys have a wonderful day and god bless.
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i think this girl who is your friend really likes you and only tells you to talk to the other girl that you like because the girl who is your friend wants you to say no id rather talk to you. but you have left it too late now your friend has feelings for you when you should of made it clear at the start your just friends
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Peak wrote i think this girl who is your friend really likes you and only tells you to talk to the other girl that you like because the girl who is your friend wants you to say no id rather talk to you. but you have left it too late now your friend has feelings for you when you should of made it clear at the start your just friends


Good point, I told her when we first started talking I would never be into her...
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Imao wrote
Peak wrote i think this girl who is your friend really likes you and only tells you to talk to the other girl that you like because the girl who is your friend wants you to say no id rather talk to you. but you have left it too late now your friend has feelings for you when you should of made it clear at the start your just friends


Good point, I told her when we first started talking I would never be into her...


ohh well maybe you need to tell her again before you lead her on even more and thts not good lol personal experiences. and stop talking about other girls to her will make it worse just let her know you are just friends and stuff just dont give her attention like a partner would
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