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I've been friends with my buddy for around 4-5 years via Xbox live in the last year or so we became real close like we talked everyday on the phone and Xbox from the minuite we woke up and we used to fall asleep on the phone this was like a regular thing for like a year straight he's fallen out with me before over silly things but has come around after a couple days. In August I went round to his house to stay for a couple weeks he lives like 3 hours from me and we'd never met before and not long after I came back he just cut me off for literally no reason so I was like okay I'll give him a couple days but here we are nearly 2 months later and he still keeps blocking me when I try to make contact with no explaination whatsoever so all in all I'm just looking for some advice on what to do as I really don't wanna loose my best friend what should I do? Sorry for the long post :/

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If you havee tried to contact him and he blocks you everytime, then there isn't much else you can do. I'm sorry about what happened man but it's harassment if you keep trying to contact him.

I recommend that you come to terms with he fact that he might not be your friend anymore. If he doesn't ever contact you again, then thats a sign that y'all two weren't destined to be lifelong friends. They come and go
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First problem is people who make friendships over any form of internet tend to stay a friendship that belongs only on the internet.

You steeped to a level that is breaking boundaries and now he is doing his best to avoid the uncomfortable awkward moment you have made.

Worse comes to worse he just didn't like you in the end. Best to move on cause he obviously is trying to.
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I'd consider just waiting it out, give him some space.
Don't try contacting him if he keeps blocking you - let him be for a bit.

If he comes back, ask him what happened, and if he doesn't come back, then you might have to move on (as unfortunate as it may sound).

Good luck dude, I hope this works out for you.
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I get what you mean but we like didn't have any other friends it just used to be us two I just don't get why he has done this I could understand if I'd of done something but I havnt and it's really getting to me no knowing the reason it's keeping me up at night I guess I've just gotta suck it up and move on
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ultimate96gamer wrote I get what you mean but we like didn't have any other friends it just used to be us two I just don't get why he has done this I could understand if I'd of done something but I havnt and it's really getting to me no knowing the reason it's keeping me up at night I guess I've just gotta suck it up and move on


You making it seem like this dude is a girl that broke your heart. Trust me man, you will make many more friends over Xbox live
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Tbh it is like a break up and now I literally no friends :/ making friends on Xbox used to be pretty easy back in the day but it seems different now like a lot harder than it used to be or it might just me me maybe
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I'll be your friend. What's your gt? Let's go mod some bo2
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JamaicanMods wrote I'll be your friend. What's your gt? Let's go mod some bo2


You sir are a good man.
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If that is a sincere request to be my friend then my GT is wvxn I'm not online rn as its 02:29 my time
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