let her go with him. do not sweat it, if its meant to be with him , shes going to be with him. if shes meant to be with you , she will be with you least she told you she could of lied

[Update] she asked him if he cared if I went with them and he doesn't want me to

logan111logan wrote [Update] she asked him if he cared if I went with them and he doesn't want me to

Hes trying to smash then

It ain't nuttin to cut that bitch off

Listen man if she'd cared about you that much she wouldn't even go in the first place?

Imagine if it was the other way round? She would be screaming all over the place. I mean fair enough to make amends but that an be done over text. Going out for dinner? I'm sorry that's wrong that.

I wouldnt let her go man. If she is really wanting to talk to him, suggest that all three of y'all can go talk somewhere

In any relationship there has to be trust. You can't tell her that she can't go to dinner with him, but you can explain that you feel dinner is more of a dating thing whereas lunch would be more acceptable or something. If you can't trust her to make her own decision to stay with you, then the relationship isn't in good standing.

To be honest though, it sounds like you're a rebound boyfriend and she wants the other guy back.

002 wrote In any relationship there has to be trust. You can't tell her that she can't go to dinner with him, but you can explain that you feel dinner is more of a dating thing whereas lunch would be more acceptable or something. If you can't trust her to make her own decision to stay with you, then the relationship isn't in good standing.

To be honest though, it sounds like you're a rebound boyfriend and she wants the other guy back.

F that, my GF isn't doing shit with her ex-bf, they are exes for a reason. I do agree on the last part though

I'd have to know the situation personally. I just know that I am still friends with my ex and there are no feelings there between us. I do understand the concern though. I have had them myself, which is a reason the relationship just didn't work out. Y'all should hear each other out. If y'all aren't on the same page, ending it may be the healthiest thing.

Mux wrote

002 wrote In any relationship there has to be trust. You can't tell her that she can't go to dinner with him, but you can explain that you feel dinner is more of a dating thing whereas lunch would be more acceptable or something. If you can't trust her to make her own decision to stay with you, then the relationship isn't in good standing.

To be honest though, it sounds like you're a rebound boyfriend and she wants the other guy back.

F that, my GF isn't doing shit with her ex-bf, they are exes for a reason. I do agree on the last part though

So you must not think your girlfriend really likes you then if you think her ex poses a threat to your relationship with her. If he didn't then it wouldn't matter.