I was at that point in my current relationship once, we would have pointless arguments.
So I'm gonna list what we did that helped and now we don't really fight at all anymore.

We started going out more and doing things.
Such as hikes, going to the beach, a random dinner date. Going to the movies.

It was little things like that, that made us spend valuable time together.
It can be hard to find the time to do these things but is it worth it to give up the time that you have to spend time with her?
It was worth it for me.

I hope you work things out with her, love is a strong thing.

I'm 18 and I'm struggling to find a job right now so I can take her to nice places and be able to do things with her, but it's also hard when she has a strict mother and grandparents who barely let her do anything with me..

Me and my current girlfriend have been together for around 9 and a half months today, and we've been through so many difficult rough patches and times and I do admit we've both said lots of things we didn't mean and we've hurt eachother in arguments (not physically) but I notice everytime we argue and fix things, we get closer and closer and grow stronger. I know this isn't the case for you as of now, but what I want you to do is confront your girl and tell her you don't want to lose her. Tell her how important she is to you, tell her how much you want her apart of your life, and tell her how much you care about her happiness. No matter what, love will pull you closer together so if you truly love each other, I'm positive this could potentially work out and turn into a great thing.

Tell her how much you love her, and tell her you'll do anything to ensure that you and her have a happy and positive relationship. If the distance when you're at work is a problem for her, give her your all when you get home and re-assure her that you love her and everything else I stated above. One of the main things I notice myself needing is reassurance just because I worry a lot about making people I'm close with happy and therefore if you reassure your girlfriend how you feel about her, things will be a lot better for you both. Communication is key in this day and age and I'd suggest you don't take it for granted. Also, sorry if this post is really cluttered or disorganized, I'm pretty tired and had to get these thoughts out of my head before I forgot about them. Good luck and I hope your relationship turns out great man.

i_kick_turtles wrote I'm 18 and I'm struggling to find a job right now so I can take her to nice places and be able to do things with her, but it's also hard when she has a strict mother and grandparents who barely let her do anything with me..

I can see how that can be a problem, young with not a lot of money.
Then you guys really need to sit down and have a serious talk about the future of your relationship.
Talking can help a lot and try not to argue when you guys have this talk.
Speak one at a time, don't interrupt and listen to what you each have to say and really take in what you each are saying.

Woman are needy. Go gay.

My girlfriend treats me like crap, I treat her like crap. But, we both love eachother we have a weird relationship where we both openly admit how disgusting we find eachother but at the same time we can never be apart, we've been together nearly 3 years. We argue constantly, we fight constantly. She's punched me in the face, pushed me into concrete walls, pushed me over, split my lip, thrown a table at me, slapped me so hard in the ear that I couldn't hear for like 5 minutes. Buttttttttttt.... we still love eachother.

My point is, even though at times it may seem like you hate eachother, or you don't get along or even if you feel you no longer love that person, your true feelings will overtake you and they will help guide you into doing whats right, and if you have genuine love for eachother that can conquer anything then those arguments, those problems you won't matter and although they will matter at the time they won't a day after.


Good luck with your relationship dude!

po wrote Woman are needy. Go gay.

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po wrote Woman are needy. Go gay.

. I give up..... i want kids

I try and tell her each and everyday how much she means to me, and when we fight, or when I'm not able to talk to her due to work, she always texts me says the she feels like we're falling apart. And I don't want that to happen. I'm trying to make us successful, but I keep getting shot down with arguments after arguements. I really appreciate what all of you people are saying. I'm going to try to make it a stronger relationship like it used to be when I get the chance to see her again here sometime tomorrow.

Love is honestly the deadliest weapon given to a person mind.

She's all I'm looking forward to in my life.

Idk what I'd do if I'd ever lose her