Testawich wrote Hey man, I think the best thing to do is be yourself, and don't cause any unnecessary problems, because if you are accusing her of talking to other guys (which isn't wrong on her side, its not like you two are dating right now) she will lose feeling for you, especially being far away. You have to kill her with kindness and love, because if he has spent this much time and effort to keep you in her life, you are something special to her. No girl will go out of her way to keep someone in their life that they don't want there. So I'm not telling you to stop being overprotective because I think its wrong, I'm telling you not to because she will start to think you're a controlling asshole, and that isn't what you want.

Testawich wrote To be honest it depends how bad it is. If she starts straying away from you for another guy then its hard to come back from that, but like I said you don't want to come off as an asshole, so if you are going to bring it up with her don't "accuse" her of anything, be nice with it, and make sure to clarify that you aren't trying to be a controlling asshole. I would talk to her about how she's feeling right now if you are getting really jealous, how she feels about waiting to be with you, and if it comes to it ask her if there are any other guys that she's talking to intimately, but that is a touchy subject where she could get very defensive depending on the girl. So you will have to say something along the lines of "I don't want to ask you this because I do trust you, but I was wondering if you are talking with any other guys right now? I'm not trying to control your life but with the way we have been talking I just want to make sure we are still on good terms and happy with what we have, and I want to make sure you still want to move forward with me." Obviously reword that into however you would say it, but thats the general idea.

Xaldin wrote yea you absolutely cannot accuse someone of something unless you have proof that would be a terrible relationship to be in on both ends. Obviously the hard part is what to do with your feelings (you say you trust but you obviously dont), if you can bury them for a while until you build trust that could help if they dont go away you might have to try sitting down with her and trying to understand how she feels but the bottom line is you cant accuse her of things that terrible

XeShawn wrote listen bro im the same way but i got over it looked at it different , if she finna talk to other boy den why you need her , why hurt ya self , clout yo self bro , show des females dat you ant something that just come , you cant let them hurt you , just wait till you been with the same girl for 3-4 years that shit get tough bro , boss up bro its hard bro hunnit it is but youll be ite bro