Now she's acting weird, I called her and she answered then she said she was gonna go and get ready for college, she normally calls me when she's getting ready

XeX_Reloads wrote hahaha you serious? youre clearly still middle school or some shit and cant get over your crush! go ask your parents for some advice first before coming onto the internet and discussing personal issues with strangers! mommy and daddy taught you better

Says the guy with his hair spiked up in his avatar yeah alright mate

The best thing to do is work on your confidence dude. Coming off as confident (as long as it's real and not a front) will really help you hold a relationship, not to mention other things.

Now theres people what will give you support and then you get waste of breaths like these people trying to take the piss.clearly these are virgins and are total **** just ignore the haters then are immature just be yourself around her pal thats how you will know the real her

I thank everyone for all the replies, I spoke to her and it turns out she wasn't talking to another guy and she still wants to move forward, having your guys' support made me feel a whole lot better earlier. Minus the few that were trying to be funny or smart.

I think all you have to do is stay confident and have that level of trust man, if you dont trust that she'll be loyal you shouldn't get together. It all depends on how you think man. I'd just trust her, seems like you really like her.

T0P wrote I thank everyone for all the replies, I spoke to her and it turns out she wasn't talking to another guy and she still wants to move forward, having your guys' support made me feel a whole lot better earlier. Minus the few that were trying to be funny or smart.

Thats good to hear man! Good luck with the relationship

Don't be so jealous. You'll end up pushing her away.

Okie dokie, where do we start?

Let's start with jealousy. We are young so jealousy will always be there until we grow up and mature a little bit. Some people never get that, you could be 50 years old and have been in your relationship since you were 25 and you will still see other guys as a threat to your relationship. Over time in your relationship if it's the right girl she will show that you are all she wants and needs and those feelings will be put at ease.

Now we'll move onto talking to the opposite sex. You may not be confident but you have to understand she CAN talk to other guys. As long as she's not trying to date them or sleep with them it's all right. If you get mad when she talks to other guys, she will do it more and more and leave you. You've washed say a cup before, right? Let's say the cup is the relationship, the water is her and the hand washing the cup is you. This cup (relationship) has a lot of water (her) in it, say 3/4 full. So now you push your hand to the bottom of the cup suppressing her and her freedoms, what happens to the water? It will leak out of every crevasse between your hand and the glass getting its way out of the cup and all of the sudden there is no more water. Don't take away her freedoms because of your insecurities, that will just make things worse.

It's hard to extend a branch of trust but it's always easier if you start it instead of waiting for the other person to. Just trust her until she shows a REASONABLE suspicion that she might be unfaithful to you. Yeah she's a ways a way but that doesn't mean she's looking for other guys. Yeah she might be looking a hot guy and I know you don't want to hear that but let's be honest. Everyone in a relationship still looks at good looking people and admires their beauty if you will. That is all fine and dandy, it's even cool if they talk with them. Where it's no good is when they start flirting with the other person and making a move on them.

I'll give you an example from my current life. I'm talking with this girl whom I had been friends with for the past 5 years now. Way back when, we used to go on dates but never dated. She was one of the hottest girls in the class, it all started when my friend told me with all the money I'm making I could go out with anyone and told me to ask her out. I just found out a couple months ago she told him to say that so I'd ask her out. Anyway, that's irrelevant. The point is, she's gorgeous and I'm a pasty white fat guy living with his parents in his grandparents home. I'm not exactly the sexiest guy in the world lol. Yeah I make a lot of money but she doesn't care. She gets mad at me when I make big purchases and she's the girl that would rather shop at 2nd hand store and save money as opposed to buying the newest coolest clothing. To this day we're still not dating, but neither of us have dated anyone since we met, she's still hot as hell and could do A LOT better than me and I have no idea what she sees in me lol. I lack self confidence but some how she's still here even though she can have someone a lot better than me. That's the kind of girl that will give you confidence.