Me personally i would not date a smoker, Smoking is disgusting.

I used to smoke myself but I stopped a few years ago it was the best thing I ever did.

NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

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NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

unless they were sitting there blowing smoke in your face, how would stepping outside smoking a cig and then coming back in 3 minutes later be killing you too?

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NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

unless they were sitting there blowing smoke in your face, how would stepping outside smoking a cig and then coming back in 3 minutes later be killing you too?

Okay say they never smoke around you.

Knowing that the person you love is slowly killing themselves wouldn't kill you inside?

I don't know about you but growing up watching my nan smoke then seeing her on her death bed because of it killed me inside a bit.

No, reasons being there is absolutely no positive to smoking, it takes your money and your life thats it. If someone cant make decent choices with their own body and money how can they make good choices for me plus future kids.

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NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

unless they were sitting there blowing smoke in your face, how would stepping outside smoking a cig and then coming back in 3 minutes later be killing you too?

Okay say they never smoke around you.

Knowing that the person you love is slowly killing themselves wouldn't kill you inside?

Last time I checked everyone dies eventually, drinking coca cola kills you slowly, eating McDonalds kills you slowly. Poor dieting kills you slowly.

Im not saying smoking isnt bad BUT its just one of those things. Also if you REALLY loved someone and they happened to smoke, wouldnt it be worth your time to maybe help them quit instead of just totally dismissing them?

sidenote, sweet downvote

Yes, smoke myself. Doesn't bother me one bit. Just then one day we can help each other quit together

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NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

unless they were sitting there blowing smoke in your face, how would stepping outside smoking a cig and then coming back in 3 minutes later be killing you too?

Okay say they never smoke around you.

Knowing that the person you love is slowly killing themselves wouldn't kill you inside?

Last time I checked everyone dies eventually, drinking coca cola kills you slowly, eating McDonalds kills you slowly. Poor dieting kills you slowly.

Im not saying smoking isnt bad BUT its just one of those things. Also if you REALLY loved someone and they happened to smoke, wouldnt it be worth your time to maybe help them quit instead of just totally dismissing them?

That is the dumbest thing iv'e heard when people talk about smoking. Smoking is in no way comparable to drinking pop.

Also, what if that person had no intentions of quitting? I've dated two girls that smoked and neither had any intentions of quitting. Me trying to get them to quit caused the relationship to end.

But I guess that just because im not " ready for a real relationship anyway"

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NV4 wrote Lol anyone who says they can't be with a smoker isn't ready for a real relationship anyway. You gonna love them refaurdless if they smoke or not lol. Bad topic.

Im not ready for a real relationship because I don't wanna be with someone who would slowly be killing not only themselves but me too?

unless they were sitting there blowing smoke in your face, how would stepping outside smoking a cig and then coming back in 3 minutes later be killing you too?

Okay say they never smoke around you.

Knowing that the person you love is slowly killing themselves wouldn't kill you inside?

Last time I checked everyone dies eventually, drinking coca cola kills you slowly, eating McDonalds kills you slowly. Poor dieting kills you slowly.

Im not saying smoking isnt bad BUT its just one of those things. Also if you REALLY loved someone and they happened to smoke, wouldnt it be worth your time to maybe help them quit instead of just totally dismissing them?

That is the dumbest thing iv'e heard when people talk about smoking. Smoking is in no way comparable to drinking pop.

Also, what if that person had no intentions of quitting? I've dated two girls that smoked and neither had any intentions of quitting. Me trying to get them to quit caused the relationship to end.

The point is everything kills you, and I just said "smoking isnt bad BUT". Do you understand how to read a structured sentence?

I guess those two girls werent in love with you, so it wasnt worth time spending with them anyway. Soooo whats the problem here? Are you looking for false love?