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Would you date a smoker?

Yes
19.74% (15 votes)
Yes, I smoke as well
23.68% (18 votes)
No
56.58% (43 votes)

Total Votes: 76

#41. Posted:
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Nah. I mean I would, but I'd get her to quit.

My ex was a smoker when we started dating, and then she quit because it bothered me.
After we broke up she started smoking again, lol pathetic.
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Illustrated wrote Nah. I mean I would, but I'd get her to quit.

My ex was a smoker when we started dating, and then she quit because it bothered me.
After we broke up she started smoking again, lol pathetic.


Same thing with me basically.
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Me being a smoker yes. If i was not a smoker... also yes. Just because someone has a bad habit shouldn't really play a part in a date/relationship or what ever it is you do. You go with that person because of the personality majority of the time. If you go for looks you're just stupid lol. This "2nd hand smoke/ killing themselves slowly" blah blah blah. Everyone is dying slowly smoker or not. The 1 thing guaranteed in life is death. If you have feelings or love someone. A habit like smoking wouldn't bother you.

That's my opinion. Feel free to stack my down votes
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I have before, sometimes it sucks because the cigarette stench is still on their breath, but if you like/love them enough it is something you will deal with.
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I agree with you here as well. I couldn't be a smoker myself. It's up to that person if she's a smoker you can't stop her really can you so nothing we as men can do.
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Yeah for sure although I don't agree with smoking since its essentially slowly killing you, smoking won't change their personality.
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Smoking is a bad habit, hell even I still smoke a cig occasionally when I've quit months ago.
But just because you smoke doesn't mean I don't wanna be with you, to each his own.
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I was smoking since I just turned 13, I smoked up until a few months ago I had many failed attempts at stopping and smoked 20/30 cigarettes per day. I saw my health starting to plummit but yet I ignored this and continued to smoke.

I was with a girl who I knew for a while, we messed around here and there when me and my gf would break up (I know bad yeah cool ok) she didn't smoke as much as me and not for as long. The last time we started speaking she had quit for around 3 weeks and was telling me too, I kinda wanted too but didn't. After around 3 weeks I got back with my current Girlfriend as obviously stopped speaking to her, a few weeks later it came out that she was diagnosed with Cancer. Something like blood cancer?

This was a wake up call for me and gave me the motivation to quit the horrible habit. I switched to a vape and never looked back! It was hard for me but I managed, Cigarette's really aren't worth it! The girl is the same age as me (16) and is too sick to even leave her house, I mean come on. If that's not a wake-up call to stop smoking then what is?

So, No. I wouldn't be with someone that smokes, I made my current GF stop that shit

Ps: I know I'm a pr!ck for what I did but I learnt from my mistakes, I do feel bad for her and did speak to her. I guess what's done is done though and there's nothing I can do to change that
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Personally, yes.
But that's just because, I smoke too.
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I would need to be in the situation to really say for sure. Currently though, I'd say it wouldn't be likely. I was raised by smokers. I got sick of it, really. It doesn't have anything to do with it being unhealthy. I mean, I'm super unhealthy and I don't do anything like that. It is just the smell and the smoke. The smell sticks to your cloths and hair. It is hard to breathe when the smoke is around. It's just gross in that type of way. Don't want to deal with it when I don't have to.
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