Styr wrote

LoyaIty wrote Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.

brutal but it's facts. She's playing you, not worth your time mate, tell her if she wants you then to come find you then giv eher space. If she doesn't message you then that's her loss, no point chasing her if she's not interested. Don't waste your time mate.

I just really didn't want to waste 2 years of a relationship if their was still a chance to fix it I wanted to take that chance.

Just make a new acc to do your lurking

Dont fall for it bruh

Targaryen wrote

LoyaIty wrote Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.

I am not asking anyone to feel bad for me? I stated that in the topic. I am just asking for help. I don't feel like she is cheating, she was always the person who hated that stuff. And the break up was difficult situation a lot of things had been happening recently like arguments and what not and I was just to stupid actually pay attention and fix things when I had the chance.

Jesus you are blind by love. You'd be surprised how often people cheat and yet they were the most opposed to cheating and hated it to the brim. Open your eyes. JUST OPEN YOUR EYES.

Trust me you don't want me to be more brutal. I am honest to the brim about these things. She's playing you like a fool.

just move on fam

Here's the thing with "love" doesn't matter how much you care about a person when the truly don't feel the same way about you. Not all the time but about 80% of the time if a person was one way they probably won't ever change. If something doesn't seem right it usually isn't. Move on man plenty of other girls out there! No need for any of this!

Kidd- wrote Here's the thing with "love" doesn't matter how much you care about a person when the truly don't feel the same way about you. Not all the time but about 80% of the time if a person was one way they probably won't ever change. If something doesn't seem right it usually isn't. Move on man plenty of other girls out there! No need for any of this!

Mate do you know what most people don't realise? They fall in love with the person. I prefer to fall in love with the emotion and feelings. This way when they leave I ain't as hurt and can move on. These days no one really stays together as people don't know how to talk to one another.

LoyaIty wrote

Kidd- wrote Here's the thing with "love" doesn't matter how much you care about a person when the truly don't feel the same way about you. Not all the time but about 80% of the time if a person was one way they probably won't ever change. If something doesn't seem right it usually isn't. Move on man plenty of other girls out there! No need for any of this!

Mate do you know what most people don't realise? They fall in love with the person. I prefer to fall in love with the emotion and feelings. This way when they leave I ain't as hurt and can move on. These days no one really wants stays together as people don't know how to talk to one another.

That's the problem with this new generation man. It's the hook up generation all about Netflix and chill and just using the word love not actually being in it.

I do appreciate all your guys replies and what not. I just sent a long message. Basically saying I'll give space, but I need a decision soon. I told her I'm the games, and basically she needs yo make her mind up.

I really do appreciate your guys feed back. I don't really want to be stuck on the same chick if she doesn't feel the same way. I don't feel like she is cheating due to the fact when we were dating we basically had a open phone policy kind of we didn't really mind if we went through each others phones. But you know their are always possibilities.

It does hurt a lot, and it is definitely a wake up call. But it is something that needs to be done I can't just go on the rest of my life wanting someone I can't get back.

Thanks again guys for the help even though I didn't really expect everyone to jump in with comments.

Kidd- wrote

LoyaIty wrote

Kidd- wrote Here's the thing with "love" doesn't matter how much you care about a person when the truly don't feel the same way about you. Not all the time but about 80% of the time if a person was one way they probably won't ever change. If something doesn't seem right it usually isn't. Move on man plenty of other girls out there! No need for any of this!

Mate do you know what most people don't realise? They fall in love with the person. I prefer to fall in love with the emotion and feelings. This way when they leave I ain't as hurt and can move on. These days no one really wants stays together as people don't know how to talk to one another.

That's the problem with this new generation man. It's the hook up generation all about Netflix and chill and just using the word love not actually being in it.

I'm 19 (in march) bare this in mind. I hate this generation. There is no other way to put it. People feel like 2 years is a long period of time etc.

I'll let you in on a secret...


The thing is people take for granted what they recieve. We are all spoilt by this world and being given so many ways to live.
I have lived all types of life. Upper-class, upper-middle (current), middle, lower and I was even homeless at one point. This showed me how much people piss about with what they have.

Put it this way:
This kid was with a person for 2 years. Those 2 years he felt happy as he was with someone he lusted to a high extent (Lust not Love). This made him now paranoid that he cannot have that certain person in his life (itemizing) and someone else will take them away.

This is very common and it's a psychological matter. It's the belief that you cannot have something and it will be taken away from you. This goes both towards humans and items.