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lol i'll do it hmu with her username
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No, you sound like a creep.
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LoyaIty wrote
Kidd- wrote
LoyaIty wrote
Kidd- wrote Here's the thing with "love" doesn't matter how much you care about a person when the truly don't feel the same way about you. Not all the time but about 80% of the time if a person was one way they probably won't ever change. If something doesn't seem right it usually isn't. Move on man plenty of other girls out there! No need for any of this!


Mate do you know what most people don't realise? They fall in love with the person. I prefer to fall in love with the emotion and feelings. This way when they leave I ain't as hurt and can move on. These days no one really wants stays together as people don't know how to talk to one another.


That's the problem with this new generation man. It's the hook up generation all about Netflix and chill and just using the word love not actually being in it.


I'm 19 (in march) bare this in mind. I hate this generation. There is no other way to put it. People feel like 2 years is a long period of time etc.

I'll let you in on a secret...
IT ISN'T!


The thing is people take for granted what they recieve. We are all spoilt by this world and being given so many ways to live.
I have lived all types of life. Upper-class, upper-middle (current), middle, lower and I was even homeless at one point. This showed me how much people piss about with what they have.

Put it this way:
This kid was with a person for 2 years. Those 2 years he felt happy as he was with someone he lusted to a high extent (Lust not Love). This made him now paranoid that he cannot have that certain person in his life (itemizing) and someone else will take them away.

This is very common and it's a psychological matter. It's the belief that you cannot have something and it will be taken away from you. This goes both towards humans and items.
I respect what you're saying but I wouldn't consider it lust. I love her, I was loyal, committed, I was willing to do anything for her, I'd give my life for hers. If I had to choose her happiness or mine I would choose for her to be happy rather than myself. I'd made a few mistakes in the time we dated, she did as well. I am not really paranoid, it just hurts losing someone so close. We lived together, did everything together. I am still trying to fight for the relationship, but their is no point in fighting if their is no chance in getting back together. That is why I wanted to have someone follow her Instagram. Because I don't want to move on, I want her. To me she is perfect, and in reality no one is perfect. You know from looks to personality. I love everything about her. And even if we don't get back together I still wish her the best with her life, because I don't want her going unhappy.
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If it's meant to work it'll work
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That's kind of strange my man, but if she hides stuff from you. Why would you want to try to work it out?
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LoyaIty wrote Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.


Jesus Christ
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