Zzaroth wrote Sounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.

uh thats a good one but if there was another dude involved like im thinking im not gonna fight for her when we have only been talking for 5 days my mother taught me better then that.

Zombae wrote Basically this means that she either has an ex who's she's still trying to work things out with and you'll be the next option in line or it means that she likes another guy and she's in the process of trying to get with him

Yeah she did say she had an ex she was with for 4 years and he treated her like shit so it looks like she is being stupid and falling for him again. sorry i should have mentioned this in the post.

XeCookie_ wrote

Zzaroth wrote Sounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.

uh thats a good one but if there was another dude involved like im thinking im not gonna fight for her when we have only been talking for 5 days my mother taught me better then that.

If you have to fight for her anyway, she's not worth it since she's not dedicated to you, and if there is another guy what's stopping her from cheating on you

XeCookie_ wrote

Zzaroth wrote Sounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.

uh thats a good one but if there was another dude involved like im thinking im not gonna fight for her when we have only been talking for 5 days my mother taught me better then that.

You also have a good point. Now if he feels like he has enough feelings for this girl then i believe that he should persue her if mentioned lady is worth the trouble. Mine was and on the 28th of February will be our 5 years. Happiness is never not worth the hassle.

urBeats wrote

XeCookie_ wrote

Zzaroth wrote Sounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.

uh thats a good one but if there was another dude involved like im thinking im not gonna fight for her when we have only been talking for 5 days my mother taught me better then that.

If you have to fight for her anyway, she's not worth it since she's not dedicated to you, and if there is another guy what's stopping her from cheating on you

Yeah imo it looks like she cant decide between me and her ex and shes just looking out for me because she doesnt want to hurt me because shed rather be with him unfortunately.

Thanks to all for the feedback but i have added an edit to the thread so id recommend reading that as well!

XeCookie_ wrote Thanks to all for the feedback but i have added an edit to the thread so id recommend reading that as well!

Well good luck in your endeavors my friend glad I could be of some help.

XeCookie_ wrote

Brigand wrote Getting a suspicion that there is another dude involved just by reading it.

"Buts it not I just don't wanna get you in the mix cause it's really complicated."
That sentence there kinda shows that there is something she clearly doesn't want you to know that would definitely ruin what you two have going on.

Just let it be as it is for now and see what happens.

did you read the entire post lol because i said the same thing you are saying...

You asked what I thought of the situation and I gave it to you. Can't blame for having the same assumptions.

Also for the edit, sounds like she is trying to lure you in by giving her more attention. She sweet talking you it seems. But I assume those to be nothing but fallacies just by the current situation.

XeCookie_ wrote

Zombae wrote Basically this means that she either has an ex who's she's still trying to work things out with and you'll be the next option in line or it means that she likes another guy and she's in the process of trying to get with him

Yeah she did say she had an ex she was with for 4 years and he treated her like shit so it looks like she is being stupid and falling for him again. sorry i should have mentioned this in the post.

Girls like assholes

Id personally just straight up ask her the f**k is going on

Not gonna know anything unless you ask