Saiko wrote 17 years old? Got your whole life ahead of you. No point in being in a toxic relationship. Some things don't work. Its just knowing when to call it a day.

If everyone thought like that then nothing would ever last. A relationship is just like starting up a business, you get out what you put in. If the most successful people said "I'll call it a day" when things got tough then they wouldn't have made it to success.

Just sit down and communicate. If you lover her and she loves you then you will want to know whats going on in each others minds, sit down and talk it out. You wont get anywhere without communication.

Hope this helps you op