JaIen wrote Maybe shes doing it for attention? have you been busy with other stuff recently

If she does stuff like that when she is craving attention, that's a big no no. Unless she has brought the issue up a bunch of times, but if she hasn't mentioned anything about you seeming distracted than it's no excuse.

I'm incredibly happy to report, that through the undisclosed method I was using, I found out that she it definitely not cheating. She even texted me to tell me it all, like right out of the blue I got a text of her telling me everything. I miss that openness she once had, and it seems like it's coming back.

I'm happy that I was proven wrong, and that my fears didn't come true.

I know it would have been more exciting for all of you to hear my story of what I did next, if she had been cheating, sadly for you, that isn't the case lol

We talked a bit after she texted me, she was at work, but she's a coordinator for a local telemarketing company here, and pretty much runs the place, so she can text and call whenever just like me with my work position, but she's home now. I told her everything from my side, and we sat, and talked, and everything went really good actually.

Thanks for letting me vent when I was a little stressed out earlier guys.

Dang! I wanted some drama to go down. Nah, I'd rather see it end well, man. Everyone deserves to be happy. How was it nothing though if she had sent pictures and received some as well? Or do you mean that nothing physical happened?

It's a hard situation. If I was in that predicament, I'd walk away. That's just me though, no matter the circumstance or excuse, cheating is cheating and they've broken your trust. You're going to find it extremely difficult to ever trust her again.

In my eyes it's not something that's forgivable in a relationship or marriage.