Hardwick wrote Thanks to every single one of you that has replied really means alot.

I'm only 18 also so I have my whole future a head of me, It's just weird with it being my first ever relationship and we broke up on mutual terms really but went straight into no contact. We both just didn't seem happy anymore and that thing's weren't working like they were before it.

I've fully removed myself from social media now because I can't be bothered with all the stuff she's retweeting like "2018 is going to be SO much fun, nothing but good vibes and good company" and "this is the happiest i've been in forever" It's just a massive kick in the stomach because I don't take sh*t off nobody nor will I make her make me out to be a fool. Alot of stuff went on in our relationship in which she was in the wrong for and i got fuc*ed because I'm too much of a nice guy.

If this was me and she was posting that shit I would instantly block her. Just goes to show what kind of scum she was deep down.

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Hardwick wrote Thanks to every single one of you that has replied really means alot.

I'm only 18 also so I have my whole future a head of me, It's just weird with it being my first ever relationship and we broke up on mutual terms really but went straight into no contact. We both just didn't seem happy anymore and that thing's weren't working like they were before it.

I've fully removed myself from social media now because I can't be bothered with all the stuff she's retweeting like "2018 is going to be SO much fun, nothing but good vibes and good company" and "this is the happiest i've been in forever" It's just a massive kick in the stomach because I don't take sh*t off nobody nor will I make her make me out to be a fool. Alot of stuff went on in our relationship in which she was in the wrong for and i got fuc*ed because I'm too much of a nice guy.

If this was me and she was posting that shit I would instantly block her. Just goes to show what kind of scum she was deep down.

Yeah she's a total di*k and I know how much I don't need her in my life now.

Aint gonna be running after any girls anytime soon lmao, goes to show aye.

When people say "go get under someone else to get over her", they have no idea how to get over someone. You get over someone with time, occupy yourself so you don't think of her. I know exactly how you feel bro. Not going to lie, it's going to take sometime but only time heal all wounds.

Also don't social media stalk, this was my biggest mistake. Only when I stopped looking at her social media like every 10 minutes, I started to feel better.

No offense, I feel as if you're lying to yourself when you say you don't want her back. I think the best way to get over this situation is to just remove her from your life as much as possible, especially social media. It'll take time but you'll eventually move on

TRICKNN wrote No offense, I feel as if you're lying to yourself when you say you don't want her back. I think the best way to get over this situation is to just remove her from your life as much as possible, especially social media. It'll take time but you'll eventually move on

Nah I understand what you're saying but I definitely don't want her back. This girl hurt me so much but I can't help but have feelings anyways.

Bring on the new year!

The worst thing a person can do, when trying to get over a lost love, is try to find love in another person's arms. That's unfair to the other person (since the hurt person is using another person to get over you) and that's an extremely ludicrous way of thinking.

As others have said, you've got to occupy your time. You're in college, studies must be hella hard (if you haven't finished) so try and focus your time and patience to that. I've gone through many similar situations in which I've needed to just get away from reality and ignore that "pain" of losing someone and I usually just play videogames, go out and do illegal things which I can't mention on TTG (be under the influence). There's nothing wrong with you expressing yourself and if expressing yourself about the situation makes you feel a bit better, do it whenever you can or simply find an empty notebook and write all your daily thoughts down to see if you're progressing or not.

I've managed to take months to get over a heartbreak and it's not easy but it isn't impossible either. You've got to put your mind to it, there are many many more girls out there and everybody's got somebody at the end of the road. Focus on YOU. Good luck!

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