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So I usually have more lady friends then gentlemen friends, now this one girl I've been talking to is starting to emotionally like me and I don't know how. I haven't flirted once, no compliments no nothing. She said I was funny and cute. The horrible part is I have a girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her. (Yes im soft hearted) So what should i do because no way in hell I'm risking losing my girl I've been with for almost a year for someone I've known a couple weeks.

I just don't want to lose a friend either, of course I'm gonna side with my girlfriend but you get the point im trying to make. Give me ideas how to stop this cold, no murder please. lol


I typed this on my phone while I was in bed so please don't grammar nazi me.
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Well..

You can start by actually being honest with the other girl. Verbally bringing your girlfriend up in conversation should start repelling the other girl. If she doesn't go her own way, I suggest giving her short responses afterwards.
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Introduce her to your gf :-) if she gets mad or upset thats not even your fault, its best to let her know soon before she gets too attached. good luck fam.
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Tell that hoe, "I have a gf. Nothing more will happen but you've got decent crack". Sing a bit of Liam Gallagher to her and finish it saying "As you were x"

Na just tell her you have a lass, can't go any further with her.

I'm literally in the exact position where you are but me and my lass have some shit history which doesn't help.

Note: I'll PM you now with your RAM issue hahaha
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She's obviously not a close friend if she doesn't know you have a gf, or are you kepping your gf 'secret'?

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Tell your girlfriend dude. You keep that a secret and she's going to start thinking your cheating and you don't want that, I promise.
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-Lewy wrote She's obviously not a close friend if she doesn't know you have a gf, or are you kepping your gf 'secret'?




Well I never said she was a close friend, met her through my friend who works at the subway at my work. Also why would I hide my girlfriend?
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InkJet wrote
-Lewy wrote She's obviously not a close friend if she doesn't know you have a gf, or are you kepping your gf 'secret'?




Well I never said she was a close friend, met her through my friend who works at the subway at my work. Also why would I hide my girlfriend?


That came across wrong. Like, for example.. all my friends know I have a gf cause I talk about her alot. Drop her into conversation, show you're happy and your friend will understand. If things go wrong, drop this 'friend' a message.

Gotta have backups
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Just be honest about having no interest in the girl since you have a girlfriend. There's no need to not tell her about your current relationship, it'll avoid a headache for you and a heartache for your friend if she keeps getting emotionally attached to you.

Honesty is the best policy.
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just keep both in ur pocket.
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