ApexJnr wrote

F-22 wrote

Skr wrote Just say you want to save some of your own money for your own enjoyment.

It's not that easy lol...

To what be honest?

No. That is not what I said. I said, It is not that easy. In reply to what the other guy said...And...He said...

"Just say you want to save some of your own money for your own enjoyment"

That is not easy to do. It is not as easy as it seems to just save your own money when you are in a relationship or marriage. Or at least most find it that way. Do you understand now lol?

MushroomElm wrote

F-22 wrote

Skr wrote Just say you want to save some of your own money for your own enjoyment.

It's not that easy lol...

If you're already planning on hiding money from your wife...I don't think you're in a very good relationship.
Hiding things as big as money...

I don't want to hide money. But I basically give her that money because she's my wife and she had my kid. But I do want money to myself

Stocks

Mate you need to do what's right.

If I honest I would want to have some off hlthe money I earned. Like 800 quid a week not a bad wage mate you must be able to stick a wee bit back each for then following week that's what I would do if I was married and had a child.

But that's my words

-Zoid

Divorce

Your best bet would have a sit down with her and explain. Show the figures , best of luck.

I'd limit her on what she can spend a week. Does she work too? If not tell her it's not fair she spending all your money you work hard to get. If she don't like that she isn't the one.

JRJ wrote I'd limit her on what she can spend a week. Does she work too? If not tell her it's not fair she spending all your money you work hard to get. If she don't like that she isn't the one.

Sit down with her?!?! She's bat shit crazy haha

I don't know your personal circumstances so i can only provide general advice from my own experience.

There's nothing wrong with putting away $25-50 a week for yourself mate, some personal spending money is required to keep yourself together and supporting your family.

Don't put away so much that you feel guilty or immoral, but a small amount for your own wellbeing.

Are you in an area where you can do doordash, lyft, Uber, Uber eats, etc?