XePaulio wrote You need either a gold spoofer or Xbox live. 2 day trial for example!

I have a month of live. I can find games without force host

It's sounds like your internet may be too slow. I would either reset router or use Ethernet cable and try going to online match without using mods and see if it actually works. This happened to me but it was because my internet sucks, Ethernet makes a difference even if your internet is bad. Also you could have a bad version of matrix mod menu.

Are you wireless?

am wireless, have 250MBPS

Pipn wrote am wireless, have 250MBPS

Try Ethernet. That's all I could possibly think of on why that's happening.
Ethernet solved that problem for me.

Pipn wrote Im trying to go play online using force host but nobody joins the game on MW2. I have gold, I have tried numerous servers. I am currently using Matrix Mods Menu and Rebellion live. any ideas?

It finds the best host for people when they search for games so they get the best connection. You usually just have to wait, sometimes takes a while. Because you're host people are connecting to you so you may just live in a bad area for most people or not have the best connection. Not sure.

I have the same issue i always go onto my xb1 and invite my rgh then search for the game on the xb1 once im in a game i leave on the xb1 and stay on the rgh seems long but it works, or just have a friend without rgh invite you and search

ROBHAWKK wrote I have the same issue i always go onto my xb1 and invite my rgh then search for the game on the xb1 once im in a game i leave on the xb1 and stay on the rgh seems long but it works, or just have a friend without rgh invite you and search

Yeah that's pretty long haha.
You should try Ethernet. Seriously I didn't think it would be a problem but it helped me out and solved the force host issue.

Try and find a tool with "Force Start".