Mew351 wrote Alrighttt, going to keep this straight forward and concise.

1. Don't give her too much attention.
People want what they can't have, think about yourself for a minute. The person you want is someone you can't have (yet), don't throw yourself at a girl who isn't already doing it for you. Giving her too much attention will repulse her away from you. It happens to me all the time, girls who show too much attention to me I'm usually unattracted to, over the girls I have to work for. I can't stress how important this is.

2. Let them come to you.
If you're texting each other, facebook chatting, meeting up etc. Don't always make the first move, let them come to you. If you're always making the first move you'll come off as needy, desperate and no girl will want to get involved in that. By letting them come to you, you're boosting your self-confidence in knowing that they want to go out of their way to talk to you, and you know that they want to get to know you (they like being around you, find you enjoyable to be around/talk to etc.)

3. Drop the nice guy approach.
Don't make an effort to go out of your way to be NICE to her just to make her happy. Girls like guys who won't smother them, who'll be more than just a person who will be there for her. Show different sides of yourself. Be funny, tease them (playfully..), sh*t stir. Do everything that sells yourself as much as possible to them, don't stick to one routine.
It may work in the movies, but it sure is a different story out here. (for the most part.)

4. Don't be afraid to make a move!
If you feel things are moving along well and you're at the stage where you both really like each other, don't be afraid to make a move. Girls for the most part will NOT make the first move, it's up to you to make the advances. Think about it, if you got rejected from a girl because she didn't feel the same way you'd be embarassed right? Well girls are the same except amplify that feeling by 10. Girls make it priority to uphold their own self-esteem and figure and part of this is done by not putting themselves in situations where they could face rejection.

One thing I've always lived by is no regrets.
Honestly, there have been times where I've double thought about moves I've wanted to make on girls, but I always in the end sack up and take the chance. AND the best thing about it is that the chances and risks I've taken have always made for the best experiences. Don't be afraid to take a chance, because in the end you live once, and ten years down the track do you really want to be thinking about all of those missed opportunites you had when you were younger?

5. Confidence, confidence, confidence!
Probably one of the most crucial points out of the lot is being confident! If you're confident in yourself, girls will be able to see that. Now from a perspective of a girl, (whether or not it's true in every case) girl's believe that they'll have to work harder to maintain conversations or to make attempts at socialising with you. Another perspective that they have is that unconfident guys due to their insecurities may be more needy or posessive. Now before I go any further there is a difference between confident and overly cocky, and confident and being self-assured. Try to work on being self-assured, believe in your own worth and be able to display that through the way you interact with others as well! There's no point in being self-assured if you don't let others see that you are as well! Can't stress that enough.

I would like to add something to this. I have found it to be pretty effective.

6. Feel free to crack an innuendo. Understand that there is a balence between being extremely crude and making a joke related to relationships or sex. Keep it light, and do not say anything like "I want you in bed", but just say something which is funny that gets her to picture having sex or getting in a relationship. What essentially happens, is by doing this every now and then, it will subconsciously make her think of a relationship/sex (depending on which you are after), when she thinks of you. Mind you, this will not happen consciously so she will not know about it. From my experience, this tends to intensify her feelings and is more likely to let things happen.

BALANCE!

Also a very good tip! Be playful with it, exactly! You don't want to come off as a seed, but it's also nice to be able to playfully suggest, and advance your relationship stance with the girl.

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