Im also glad most people agree with it being the persons mentality and NOT the game.

I always though it was just an excuse parents used so they didn't have to have their child exposed to such content. I do believe that some things are learned through games, and maybe a few rare incidents of a child trying to act out something he saw on a game. But I don't think that those statistics are anything near the real statistics. I'd say its less that %0.0001 in both of those statistics.

Video games don't do any harm to the player unless the player is mentally unstable, and I think that causes them to confuse real life with the video game itself :/

That is just their opinion. It doesn't mean it's true but it is sad they blame video games for violence.