coreylongfellow wrote i dont understand how you tell if you are host or not

When you are host the game will load for you first; Sadly you still wont know who loaded first, so hurry and pick your class ASAP and check the score board. The host will have 4 bars but everyone else will have 1 for about 3 seconds until they finish loading if you loaded first or second then you are host or in the running for next host. I usually get host second. Its all about your wifi. You may never get host , but keep trying. It also helps if you have 4 other people with you in a party and you search for the game that increases chances of being host too. Hope i helped.

Finally found a tutorial. It works nice too!