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ExoticiPhone wrote If she's really like that there's honestly going the same way she'll cut just don't be a dick when you let her done
What really annoys me is she made fun of her Ex boyfriend making threats about suicide and now shes pulling the same card.. I'm currently on face time with her and shes crying alot and im just like wtf.
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tell her family how it is and let them over look her
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ExoticiPhone wroteDYEL wroteGermanLobbies wrote dont let her black mail you and let her make your life a misery, tell her how it is, and explain your differences
I tried so many times man and she constantly takes it back to self harm im debating getting her mom involved but not sure that's a great idea.
Is she close with her parents or does she hate them?
Yeah her and her mom are very close she is only 19.. But idk how her mom would react about it. she might cuss me out tbh lol.
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Be completely honest with her. Do it in person, and let her know what you you like/dislike. If she mentions self harm again, let people she is close to with. This could be parents, friends, instructors, etc. You shouldn't feel obligated to stay in a relationship with her. If you really do care for her so much, you could always schedule an appointment with a counsellor and let them talk to her.
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DeluxeHazard wrote I would suggest that you do not handle this on your own then. If she is forcing you to stay in the relationship or else she will self-hard herself then get help from her parents or friends and if you do break up with her still spend time with her to make sure she seems fine.
That's kinda how i'm feeling i mean i'm talking to her right now and i told her she needs to calm down and shes like not unless your here.. shes trying to trick me into coming over to her house and then will make a big sob feast and slowly guilt me back into dating her.
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DYEL wroteurBeats wrote break it off with her and if she self harms then its her problem
you shouldn't stay if your not happy
That's what i wanna do but i'd feel horrible if she did anything because i truly care about her but i don't think we are compatiable anymore.
but you shouldn't be miserable because she cant get over a break up
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I would just advise blocking her number, blocking her Facebook and everything else you can block her on haha
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2277 wrote Be completely honest with her. Do it in person, and let her know what you you like/dislike. If she mentions self harm again, let people she is close to with. This could be parents, friends, instructors, etc. You shouldn't feel obligated to stay in a relationship with her. If you really do care for her so much, you could always schedule an appointment with a counsellor and let them talk to her.
I don't know how serious the threats are but i am not really the one to judge that.. Its just a horrible situation that i'm tired of being in not to mention both of us have cheated on each other in the past.. her online and me IRL. so neither of us have trust for one another.
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DYEL wroteDeluxeHazard wrote I would suggest that you do not handle this on your own then. If she is forcing you to stay in the relationship or else she will self-hard herself then get help from her parents or friends and if you do break up with her still spend time with her to make sure she seems fine.
That's kinda how i'm feeling i mean i'm talking to her right now and i told her she needs to calm down and shes like not unless your here.. shes trying to trick me into coming over to her house and then will make a big sob feast and slowly guilt me back into dating her.
Call a friend of yours that is mutual friends with her or one of her friends and go over with one of them so they can also talk some sense into her or even her parents because if self-harm is any ways involved any good parents would want to prevent that for their children.
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Crime- wrote I would just advise blocking her number, blocking her Facebook and everything else you can block her on haha
This has been one of my main thoughts tbh.. but if i get that call one day that she did something i could never forgive myself and would probably fall deep into a depression myself.
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