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I dont know why, but i'm not happy unless i'm at home, at school i find that i cannot be happy, when i'm at school i get very miserable, to be honest i dont have friends, and i cannot make friends, for example, if i get put in a group to do work, i immediatley freeze up and i'm super nervous, leading to things like not caring at all about it, i'd say i really have trouble talking to people, and i wish i was home-schooled... Please Help Me
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This sounds like a really serious case of anxiety. Have you been to a doctors to have it checked out? Im sorry that your going through this at the moment. As for the unhappy bit, Maybe its just a procedure your going through with your life at the moment man.

EDIT: Has anything happened at all during your life at the moment? Any sort of changes or anything that maybe you could think of? That might be causing your sadness at the moment if thats the case.
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I dont think anything has popped upthat is making me miserable, i just wish i could be alone and away from other people, i get sooo nervous when im around other kids
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Beesiest wrote I dont think anything has popped upthat is making me miserable, i just wish i could be alone and away from other people, i get sooo nervous when im around other kids


Hmm.. Id read this. I was just reading it and it sound similar to the event your currently going through. It's called Social Anxiety Disorder:
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As for the being at home and not wanting to see people, Your nervousness could be affecting that. You could feel like not wanting to meet or talk to people because your nervous of what to say or what to talk about.
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I'm in the same boat man, although maybe not as severe as yours. I can relate to it, and it's tough but one thing I can say is the more you put yourself forward the more you will grow out of it. It may not ever leave you but you will feel better about speaking to people eventually.
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Hope things get better, don't really know how to deal with depression but be strong and fight your way through it!
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I would suggest going to talk to some professional help
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To me it sounds like you have social anxiety, not depression. I can certainly relate to the whole social anxiety situation. However, over the years I became more confident which led to me being able to speak to people easily etc. One influencing factor may be your appearance. Would you consider yourself unhappy with your appearance ? As sometimes this can be something which triggers a confidence issue.

PM me if you would prefer to do so, I will happily take time to help. I understand that some of these things may be personal.
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I hope you find away to over come this i have had the same issue i have not had a real friend in 9 years first it stared with depression and then a couple of years later i stared getting really nervous around people except on Xbox its really odd.I have tried too find a reason what is causing this and no luck so far maybe that's just how i am. If you do find away to over come this please let me know.


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Hey man, PM me if you need anything. I know firsthand what it's like, even to this day. I don't know how old you are, but I would like to help you out.
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