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Alright so my ex girlfriend and me broke up about 4 months ago because she had so move away for university. Since then we have had no contact whatsoever. We have had plenty ob "break ups" in the past due to many reasons but this was the first time we were actually together and not just friend or friends with benefits. So a couple of days ago she messaged me asking me if I still had this Shirt of hers(again this is 4 months after the break up). The shirt is nothing Special and not expensive and she could of just of bought a new one or asked me to bring it by her parents who live no more than 10 minutes away. I told her i still had it and she asked if she could pick it up mid july. It's important to mention that after every fight we had in the past she was always the one to message me again after a couple of months. So after we sorta arranged the pick up she started engaging in small talk with me asking how ive been and what ive been doing.
Here is the question and I ask you guys instead of my real life frends because you have no Connection to me or her or anything from our past.

Is she lookin for a bs excuse to see me and try something or does she legit just want her Shirt back?

Thanks
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how can you not tell


its just a BS excuse man, but if was you dont give her another chance sounds like to much stress
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Well of course she wants to see you. No girl asks for a shirt back without intentions on seeing you.
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urBeats wrote how can you not tell


its just a BS excuse man, but if was you dont give her another chance sounds like to much stress


I never inted on giving her another Chance but when she stands infront of me i always get weak
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Well of course she wants to see you. No girl asks for a shirt back without intentions on seeing you.



Thats what i was thinking.. But why would she bother after 4 months?

Wouldent you try that sooner?
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TTGxDustyx wrote
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Well of course she wants to see you. No girl asks for a shirt back without intentions on seeing you.



Thats what i was thinking.. But why would she bother after 4 months?

Wouldent you try that sooner?

She probably had a lot of time to think, but it took her a long time, don't take her back though man!!
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TTGxDustyx wrote
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Well of course she wants to see you. No girl asks for a shirt back without intentions on seeing you.



Thats what i was thinking.. But why would she bother after 4 months?

Wouldent you try that sooner?

She probably had a lot of time to think, but it took her a long time, don't take her back though man!!


i know man.. i will try my best to not give in
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Excuse, but if you want to give her another chance.. t

that's your choice lol..
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That must be a dope shirt.
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She's trying to get back. My ex girlfriend and I were like this, it was toxic. We would find an excuse/reason to always come back to eachother and talk to eachother and it never worked. Finally were over eachother I think, I still care about her but itd be insane to go back to eachother if didn't work prior. Best of luck man
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