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So to begin from where it started... Around age 3 my dad left my family and took everything leaving me and my mom at the streets. We lived with my grandparents have my life and everything was getting better. Then, my mom met this guy. Who apparently she hates, because she likes to bitch about him and fight with him everyday. She's even told me she uses him for money for her personal self. And getting to what this is really about.. My mom always tells me I'm lazy, I can't do anything, I need to get out, and all this other shit. Yet I work my ass off everyday trying to make money and doing what I can. Tonight she flipped out on me because I asked her to leave my room because I was working with customers and recording. She decided to tell me I'm lazy, worthless, and don't do shit for myself. Took all my stuff, and started throwing things. Breaking dishes in the kitchen, and nearly telling me I can just leave the house. This always happens and I'm mistreated all the time, there's no food in the house and when I ask for food she says you can get a job and get your own food. Then later goes out with friends and drink..
She also took my animals and my computer...
I don't know what to do now.. I'm probably about to pack my bag with some important stuff and just leave my phone, and any other thing that I won't need. I have no where to go, no food, nothing but clothes, and some other small shit..
She also took my animals and my computer...
I don't know what to do now.. I'm probably about to pack my bag with some important stuff and just leave my phone, and any other thing that I won't need. I have no where to go, no food, nothing but clothes, and some other small shit..
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Do whats best for you... I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you it's hard out there on your own. You will need someone!
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Snow wrote Do whats best for you... I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you it's hard out there on your own. You will need someone!
Yeah.. I don't really have anybody that could help me.
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I don't know what to say. I can't give you advice on something I have never been through. Have you got other family elsewhere? If so, I'd say move/visit them and see what happens. If this was me, I'd find a way around it, even if that means putting up with staying with your mother. Stay at home, get a job that earns a bit more money and carry on doing modding. Soon you should have some money of your own and could move out somewhere. That's all I can say. Hopefully this isn't a lie(I do believe you) and hopefully you can see yourself through around this. Good luck and you can start back on my account when you're ready, I know you was midway on my account but you can finish when the times right. Thanks.
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Lukev1 wrote I don't know what to say. I can't give you advice on something I have never been through. Have you got other family elsewhere? If so, I'd say move/visit them and see what happens. If this was me, I'd find a way around it, even if that means putting up with staying with your mother. Stay at home, get a job that earns a bit more money and carry on doing modding. Soon you should have some money of your own and could move out somewhere. That's all I can say. Hopefully this isn't a lie(I do believe you) and hopefully you can see yourself through around this. Good luck and you can start back on my account when you're ready, I know you was midway on my account but you can finish when the times right. Thanks.
Other family don't listen.. My mom tries so hard to make it look like she treats me well so others don't hate her..
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I understand. I had a friend and that had the same situation as this and she moved out. You'll just have to prove to the other part of the family how bad you're being mistreated. Surely, they would believe you anyway. Why would you lie about being mistreated?
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How old are you mate?
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Jack_Sparrow wrote How old are you mate?
I'm 17
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I would just like to say her pushing you for a job isnt a bad thing, maybe the way she is doing it is bad but getting a job is a good thing. As for there being no food in the house if this is a genuine problem and youre not just being dramatic then its a case of neglect and along the lines of child abuse. Once you are 18 so mnay jobs will open up for you because your legally an adult and it will be one step closer to moving forward and leaving.
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Their are charities out there to help people like you. Maybe spend some time surfing the web for a helpline, someone who get paid to help young adults like yourself.
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