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Hey everyone this post is going to seem weird probably, but I can explain.

Over a week ago my girl friend and I broke up. Things have been really hard lately, and she claims she wants to work things out, but doesn't really show it that well. I am hurt really bad I do nothing, but think about her every second I am awake it really sucks.

I was curious if any of you that have a Instagram would mind following her and screen shotting her pictures. I am just trying to figure out if she is moving on or actually going to maybe try and work this out. Her account is on private, so I can't follow it since she won't allow me. She also will not follow new accounts. So if you want to help you have to have a decent amount if followers.

I will rep everyone who helps a couple times. Just private message me if you're willing to help.

(I am not trying to stalk her. I am trying to see whether or not she is moving on or if I should just stop trying to be with her. I am always hurt now, I feel like I have anxiety attacks constantly. My heart hurts so much and I've never been depressed in my life before until now... I'm not looking for sympathy I'm just looking for someone or a couple people to help me out.)

Thank you guys very much
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The fact that you said I'm not trying to stalk her makes it seems like you're trying to stalk her, but that's just my opinion.

Good luck in finding someone to help you

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I appreciate the thumbs down, I really love it


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If she won't allow you to follow her then I don't think she wants to work things out. I'd suggest just seeing how things go or leave it, no point becoming a stalker 'even though you say you're not'.
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I understand it could come off as a stalker.

And yeah she doesn't want me to follow her on instagram, but she ask me to come over and stay the night. Then everything will be fine for a few hours, and then everything is right back to questioning whether or not she want to be together

We dated for over 2 years, and I don't really want to waste 2 years just like that. I would rather keep it going that is why I am trying to fix things but I don't want to try and fix things if she has already moved on then in the end I'm just going to keep getting hurt.


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Targaryen wrote I understand it could come off as a stalker.

And yeah she doesn't want me to follow her on instagram, but she ask me to come over and stay the night. Then everything will be fine for a few hours, and then everything is right back to questioning whether or not she want to be together.



She's playing you, look if she really wanted to get back together she wouldn't be fine for a few hours then go back to acting like she doesn't want to be together again
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Targaryen wrote I understand it could come off as a stalker.

And yeah she doesn't want me to follow her on instagram, but she ask me to come over and stay the night. Then everything will be fine for a few hours, and then everything is right back to questioning whether or not she want to be together.


Why would you even want to be with someone who you spend half the time around thinking if she even wants to be with you? Smh, blinded by love.
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Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.
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Wren wrote
Targaryen wrote I understand it could come off as a stalker.

And yeah she doesn't want me to follow her on instagram, but she ask me to come over and stay the night. Then everything will be fine for a few hours, and then everything is right back to questioning whether or not she want to be together.


Why would you even want to be with someone who you spend half the time around thinking if she even wants to be with you? Smh, blinded by love.
Yeah I know what your saying. I just don't want to lose everything I have worked for. I love her no matter what happens in the end and that's actually really hard to say, because the only thing that's actually keeping me going is the fact that their might be a chance of us getting back together.
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LoyaIty wrote Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.


brutal but it's facts. She's playing you, not worth your time mate, tell her if she wants you then to come find you then giv eher space. If she doesn't message you then that's her loss, no point chasing her if she's not interested. Don't waste your time mate.
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LoyaIty wrote Put it this way:

1. You shouldn't need to ask people to do that. That doesn't come of as a stalker that is stalking.

2. If she wanted to be with you she would have been with you. Not questioning it.

3. She doesn't love you.

4. Stop making others feel bad for you in this situation.

5. The way she is acting she probably cheated on you also.
I am not asking anyone to feel bad for me? I stated that in the topic. I am just asking for help. I don't feel like she is cheating, she was always the person who hated that stuff. And the break up was difficult situation a lot of things had been happening recently like arguments and what not and I was just to stupid actually pay attention and fix things when I had the chance.
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