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Tbh i wish this kind of stuff didnt get posted on TTG.
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Nowhere wroteOwensRGH wrote Tbh i wish this kind of stuff didnt get posted on TTG.
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You read what the title of the topic was and you still read it. Could have just easily kept scrolling down and ignored it.
No ones got a gun to you head.
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Petite wrote That's still being cured, just cause you broke ur wrist and you couldnt work for a month doesnt mean ur wrist didnt cure even though it still happened in the past, once again it's keeping un-necessary weight in ur life.
I get where you're coming from like yea it happened but you can look back on stuff like that in 10 years and it could be a joke.
My girlfriend and I both attempted suicide at one point both of us clearly failed but we both look back at the problems we had back then and think nothing of it. I almost ended my own life like I should be dead but now that doesnt even effect me get what im saying.
I went from not caring if I was dead to lets just drop the bs from the past and move on I don't dwell over any of that and I never will.
More so you cant go back and remove that part of your life. Opportunitys missed from depression, or psychical impairments from it cannot be undone. For instance scars from cutting or liver damage from overdose attempts.
Or even the damage you have done to those around you.
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I can relate bro At the start of the year I was diagnosed with mixed anxiety depressive disorder.Genetics has played a big part in it I guess I just got shit on when it comes to genes lol.I still have days where I feel like absolute shit and have good days.The SSRI im on has helped me function a bit normal i suppose.Eveyones gonna have good and bad days I dont even know if ill be able to say i recovered from it because I dont know if I ever will.Pm me if you ever need anything bro.
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I don't know why you seem to want to argue with someone that's trying to help you have a brighter outlook? Do you prefer to stay depressed?
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OwensRGH wrote Tbh i wish this kind of stuff didnt get posted on TTG.
why'd you click the topic then?
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Honestly depression is in your head. If you want to get over it, than you will be able to. I mean half of my family has died within 4 years. My dads been dead. Me and my family are getting kicked out of our house because we can't afford it. But I'm not letting that get to me. It's all on how you deal with things. And as for scars and other stuff like that. Okay so this will make 90% people mad but idc Ima tell you my view. Cutting your self is 9/10 for attention. Cutting your self is useless. You are self harming your self for no reason. No matter how bad shit gets, you will always get through it. And as for suicide, it's selfish. You are going to put your whole family through depression because you want to take an easy way out and not get passed over something. Then you go on about saying depression is like a cracked mirror. I don't believe this at all. My mom was depressed for over a year. She was popping narcos left and right to try and hide the fact that she was depressed. There is always a solution to depression, it will take sometime but it can be done. After a year, which seemed so much longer because she was like a zombie. Didn't get out of her bed. Didn't say anything to me and my siblings. Didn't say nothing to her husband. So a year later, she talks to this guy that just got out of prison. She slowed down on the pills started coming out of her bed. Then it was like all hell let lose. She started to constantly fight with her husband. January 17 is when everything went down. Me her and my sister went sledding, my old stepdad stayed home. We got home around 9ish, I was the first one in the house. I come in and basically looked and seen we've been robbed. We had a whiteboard wall that you could write on. That's when the stepdad said he took everything he wanted and left and isn't coming back. Took tvs, beds, pictures,cat toys, food, movies, and dressers. At the end of that week of him being gone, my mom came out of her depression. Of course me and my sister didn't trust our mom. She didn't show any signs of life for a year. Fell asleep while driving on the freeway. It was bad. We had no trust or nothing for her. But after that she tried to gain our trust. If depression can't be cured, then that's like saying a headache can't. Headaches suck, they can last for a few days, but they will go away. Depression sucks, it can last for any amount of time until it is cured, the "medicine" for depression is change. You need to make a risky change. You got a 50/50 chance of that being what you needed.
So I'm done typing now. My thumbs hurt and I've told a little about my self and how I have seen and dealt with depression. Idc if this gets likes or dislikes. This is just my view on it. It's an opinion.
So I'm done typing now. My thumbs hurt and I've told a little about my self and how I have seen and dealt with depression. Idc if this gets likes or dislikes. This is just my view on it. It's an opinion.
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XeReviver wrote Honestly depression is in your head. If you want to get over it, than you will be able to. I mean half of my family has died within 4 years. My dads been dead. Me and my family are getting kicked out of our house because we can't afford it. But I'm not letting that get to me. It's all on how you deal with things. And as for scars and other stuff like that. Okay so this will make 90% people mad but idc Ima tell you my view. Cutting your self is 9/10 for attention. Cutting your self is useless. You are self harming your self for no reason. No matter how bad shit gets, you will always get through it. And as for suicide, it's selfish. You are going to put your whole family through depression because you want to take an easy way out and not get passed over something. Then you go on about saying depression is like a cracked mirror. I don't believe this at all. My mom was depressed for over a year. She was popping narcos left and right to try and hide the fact that she was depressed. There is always a solution to depression, it will take sometime but it can be done. After a year, which seemed so much longer because she was like a zombie. Didn't get out of her bed. Didn't say anything to me and my siblings. Didn't say nothing to her husband. So a year later, she talks to this guy that just got out of prison. She slowed down on the pills started coming out of her bed. Then it was like all hell let lose. She started to constantly fight with her husband. January 17 is when everything went down. Me her and my sister went sledding, my old stepdad stayed home. We got home around 9ish, I was the first one in the house. I come in and basically looked and seen we've been robbed. We had a whiteboard wall that you could write on. That's when the stepdad said he took everything he wanted and left and isn't coming back. Took tvs, beds, pictures,cat toys, food, movies, and dressers. At the end of that week of him being gone, my mom came out of her depression. Of course me and my sister didn't trust our mom. She didn't show any signs of life for a year. Fell asleep while driving on the freeway. It was bad. We had no trust or nothing for her. But after that she tried to gain our trust. If depression can't be cured, then that's like saying a headache can't. Headaches suck, they can last for a few days, but they will go away. Depression sucks, it can last for any amount of time until it is cured, the "medicine" for depression is change. You need to make a risky change. You got a 50/50 chance of that being what you needed.
So I'm done typing now. My thumbs hurt and I've told a little about my self and how I have seen and dealt with depression. Idc if this gets likes or dislikes. This is just my view on it. It's an opinion.
People cope with their problems in different ways, not everybody is alike. I'm glad that you can deal with your life's problems in the way you do but not everybody can cope in that manner. Coping mechanisms are different for each individual; you can tell a certain individual "Oh, you just need to talk it out" and they will talk it out and maybe feel better while there are other individuals who can't express themselves (and don't want to) and have to find a different way of coping.
In reference to cutting, I'm 50/50 on that issue. Most people nowadays DO cut themselves for attention (if they post in social media, it's very clear that it's for attention) but they could be trying to get attention because they feel nobody cares and nobody would pay attention unless you go out there and grub for the attention. Yes, posting it on social media is ridiculous and I've seen so many on Twitter and Facebook; the problem with posting it on social media is that if you're vulnerable to words and insults, social media will just climb on you and bother the hell out of you to try and bully you.
I can say that the "medicine" I was given for my depression had absolutely no effect to dealing with my depression. I coped by finding the strength to talk it all out and expressing myself really worked wonders when compared to the prescriptions the doctors hand out.
In reference to cutting, I'm 50/50 on that issue. Most people nowadays DO cut themselves for attention (if they post in social media, it's very clear that it's for attention) but they could be trying to get attention because they feel nobody cares and nobody would pay attention unless you go out there and grub for the attention. Yes, posting it on social media is ridiculous and I've seen so many on Twitter and Facebook; the problem with posting it on social media is that if you're vulnerable to words and insults, social media will just climb on you and bother the hell out of you to try and bully you.
I can say that the "medicine" I was given for my depression had absolutely no effect to dealing with my depression. I coped by finding the strength to talk it all out and expressing myself really worked wonders when compared to the prescriptions the doctors hand out.
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XeReviver wrote Cutting your self is 9/10 for attention. Cutting your self is useless. You are self harming your self for no reason. No matter how bad shit gets, you will always get through it
Meh, I'm not saying I disagree that the majority of people do it for attention, but I don't think it's useless for the people who do it for real reasons.
I like getting tattoos because the pain makes it difficult to think about anything else. I can only guess that people cut themselves for the same reprieve.
I'm not saying it's a good thing to do but - in terms of the practicality of doing it to help yourself stop thinking about something else - it isn't useless, or for no reason.
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