Hmm, Well if she likes the outdoors and/or traveling, you go on hikes? I used to do that with my girlfriend until we moved, its nice to just be out in nature and stopping by waterfalls to eat and joke around.
Also, Travel dates are pretty awesome too. Go somewhere shes always wanted to visit, ( can be quite expensive and not necessarily a date but itll create memories) Say Italy, maybe niagra falls.
Six Flags or something similar is also kind of a good date to me.
Pretty much all I got right now, but good luck to you guys!

Ignis-Et-Mortem wrote Hmm, Well if she likes the outdoors and/or traveling, you go on hikes? I used to do that with my girlfriend until we moved, its nice to just be out in nature and stopping by waterfalls to eat and joke around.
Also, Travel dates are pretty awesome too. Go somewhere shes always wanted to visit, ( can be quite expensive and not necessarily a date but itll create memories) Say Italy, maybe niagra falls.
Six Flags or something similar is also kind of a good date to me.
Pretty much all I got right now, but good luck to you guys!

thanks! And yeah, Im really looking for memories, but if it becomes a marriage type of ordeal, I want to be able to hear that,Your father and I went___ and did___ type of conversation and stroll through memory lane

just wow her man, something simple but cute, maybe set up like a scavenger hunt then the last clue be the place you are going to, something simple but cute

u0001f602 wrote just wow her man, something simple but cute, maybe set up like a scavenger hunt then the last clue be the place you are going to, something simple but cute

doesn't sound bad.

It may sound player-ish - but I have some experience in this department.

I'm a romantic - I love to go above and beyond for the girls I have taken on dates/dated for a period of time.

You said this girl "isn't the average girl".. No offence but isn't that what everyone says about their significant other? I'm not trying to be offensive - we just don't really know what you mean.

Is she into videogames more than other girls?
Is she more of a bro than other girls?
Does she get down and dirty more than other girls?
Is she prim and proper moreso than other girls?

Regardless of what you decide you want to do, most girls appreciate a gesture that comes from the heart. On your date, instead of picking her up right at 5 pm for dinner, show up at 4:55 pm and bring a bouquet of roses with you. Not only do girls love flowers - it's the sentiment behind them that she'll fall in love with.

I love spontaneity. It makes dates fun and unpredictable. With my current girlfriend, we always LOVE flipping a coin to make decisions for us. If we cannot decide where to go, we flip a coin, or use random.org if we have multiple ideas.

Think about places around you that are meant for groups of people - amusement parks, escape rooms, hiking trails, campsites, etc. Do things that would be fun in groups, but with her and her alone.

Alternatively, maybe get a small group of friends together and do a group date?

It's all up to you man, no pressure, really. If you do something from the heart, whether it's a $10 dinner or a $100 dinner, she'll love it because it's you she's there for, not the food or the roller coasters.

Best tip anyone can give you: Take it slow, don't jump the gun on the most amazing experiences right off the bat - you're likely to wear eachother out quickly that way. A great first/second date idea with food is an outdoor picnic. Both of you can make some stuff (or pick up a pizza on the way to the park) and sit down and enjoy the beautiful outdoors with eachother.


Good luck brother! I hope you find the love of your life like I know I've found mine.

if it happens

NicknKickn wrote It may sound player-ish - but I have some experience in this department.

I'm a romantic - I love to go above and beyond for the girls I have taken on dates/dated for a period of time.

You said this girl "isn't the average girl".. No offence but isn't that what everyone says about their significant other? I'm not trying to be offensive - we just don't really know what you mean.

Is she into videogames more than other girls?
Is she more of a bro than other girls?
Does she get down and dirty more than other girls?
Is she prim and proper moreso than other girls?

Regardless of what you decide you want to do, most girls appreciate a gesture that comes from the heart. On your date, instead of picking her up right at 5 pm for dinner, show up at 4:55 pm and bring a bouquet of roses with you. Not only do girls love flowers - it's the sentiment behind them that she'll fall in love with.

I love spontaneity. It makes dates fun and unpredictable. With my current girlfriend, we always LOVE flipping a coin to make decisions for us. If we cannot decide where to go, we flip a coin, or use random.org if we have multiple ideas.

Think about places around you that are meant for groups of people - amusement parks, escape rooms, hiking trails, campsites, etc. Do things that would be fun in groups, but with her and her alone.

Alternatively, maybe get a small group of friends together and do a group date?

It's all up to you man, no pressure, really. If you do something from the heart, whether it's a $10 dinner or a $100 dinner, she'll love it because it's you she's there for, not the food or the roller coasters.

Best tip anyone can give you: Take it slow, don't jump the gun on the most amazing experiences right off the bat - you're likely to wear eachother out quickly that way. A great first/second date idea with food is an outdoor picnic. Both of you can make some stuff (or pick up a pizza on the way to the park) and sit down and enjoy the beautiful outdoors with eachother.


Good luck brother! I hope you find the love of your life like I know I've found mine.

I know what you're saying. And I pressure not offense taken. And I say she's not the average girl because she's very flexible. It wouldn't matter what we do and she's have a good time. And I know what you're saying about getting tired of each other. I'm just getting ideas together for the future and ideas she'd rather have and attend then others. So I can figure out what she'd rather do. Or what stands out more to her.

one were the girl actually likes me.

Mooned wrote if it happens

take it with a grain of salt bro