Kate wrote catfish her so she will rebound you

This is the best advice you have? Kinda disappointed

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Famous wrote What did you do though? I need to know to even try and give a suggestion

I didn't wanna get too in depth but I cheated on her, but like I can't stand any other female . Like I don't see myself with anyone besides her. And she's so heartbroken over it, like I've tried so hard to fix this but nothing has worked. I don't wanna lose her for good

Welp, nothing really. If she decides to forgive you it'll either be ages away or never.

I'm one to forgive easy, so this is advice if she forgives or has forgiven you before. I'm a guy so I think a bit differently, but I'd honestly take back a girl that cheated on me, yeah, I'll have trust issues, but if you start spending more and more time together, like going to movies or dinner, it's easier to gain that trust back. I know it'll be hard and she may not even take you back, but if she does, try to spend as much time as possible with her, tell her exactly how you feel; do it in person, emotion can get lost over text. And like everyone else is saying, give it a week or two, I personally f*** everything up because of my clinging issues. But like I said, talk to her in person, let her know how you really feel and that you do want a future with her, and then after that, just spend as much time as possible. When you're not working. When your friends wanna makes plans. If you truly love her, like I assume you do, you'd do this. Drive over to her house right now with some flowers and tell her how you feel. Do it. Make it clear you don't want anyone else, and when you're in public with her make it obvious you guys are together, and last but not least, show her off; don't make her look like a w***** and that you're just using her, but show her off in a subtle way.

But if she doesn't forgive you, try talking to someone else. It helps you move on faster, personally I know how you're feeling, I almost screwed up my life over a girl #JealousyProblems. It took me nearly 9 months to forget about my last girl and it was a 1 month relationship.. I still think about her every now and again.

Lug wrote I'm one to forgive easy, so this is advice if she forgives or has forgiven you before. I'm a guy so I think a bit differently, but I'd honestly take back a girl that cheated on me, yeah, I'll have trust issues, but if you start spending more and more time together, like going to movies or dinner, it's easier to gain that trust back. I know it'll be hard and she may not even take you back, but if she does, try to spend as much time as possible with her, tell her exactly how you feel; do it in person, emotion can get lost over text. And like everyone else is saying, give it a week or two, I personally f*** everything up because of my clinging issues. But like I said, talk to her in person, let her know how you really feel and that you do want a future with her, and then after that, just spend as much time as possible. When you're not working. When your friends wanna makes plans. If you truly love her, like I assume you do, you'd do this. Drive over to her house right now with some flowers and tell her how you feel. Do it. Make it clear you don't want anyone else, and when you're in public with her make it obvious you guys are together, and last but not least, show her off; don't make her look like a w***** and that you're just using her, but show her off in a subtle way.

But if she doesn't forgive you, try talking to someone else. It helps you move on faster, personally I know how you're feeling, I almost screwed up my life over a girl #JealousyProblems. It took me nearly 9 months to forget about my last girl and it was a 1 month relationship.. I still think about her every now and again.

Thank you so much, much love

KyleJr wrote You cheated man. You messed up big time.

We have established this. Have you not read any of the other comments?

We all make mistakes but remember first time is a mistake second time is on purpose. You should feel bad because what you did is unfaithful and in a relationship is built on trust and love I feel you couldn't of loved her enough if you cheated my opinion though.

Move on and learn from this in your next relationship Rule number one don't cheat ;)

All the best for the future mate

Keep trying and try and try. Three years is a long ass time and I'm sure eventually she''ll forgive you but gaining her trust back will be hard as hell.


Really wish you the best luck.

Famous wrote Keep trying and try and try. Three years is a long ass time and I'm sure eventually she''ll forgive you but gaining her trust back will be hard as hell.


Really wish you the best luck.

Thanks that means a lot ! <3

Move on man if she doesn't want to fix things then she isn't worth the time to fix it. If she really cared she wouldn't let go so easily it may be tough but don't set yourself up for more heartache in the long run by chasing someone who will only back off

You need to move on, you got your whole life ahead of you I know it's hard but that's the only thing you can do