Lily wrote FYI: I forgot to mention that I have met up with the person and we had a pretty great time, it was basically all laughs and talking; nothing further than that.

Maybe I should stop texting the person for a day? I don't know. It's just confusing to me, haven't had this type of relation with a person in a while and it's sort of new to me.

Do that and see if she sends you a text.

its a strange thing that humans yearn for connection huh, well your overthinking player take it easy. sometimes shit gets annoying when a person don't know when its time to chill. that person isn't going no where. Try limiting contact through everything but physical confrontation. Nobody wants to HAVE to maintain a relationship. It just happens, if it isn't meant to be then it's cool player, move on. People come & go. Especially ****,

Lily wrote I don't really post much on here anymore, especially not personal, real-life issues, but I really have no one to talk to about this because I feel like I bore my friends with my personal stories.

Anywho, you ever have the feeling that you annoy the shit out of someone? I've been texting with this person daily for the past month, I'm interested in this person (not really at the point where I like the person, I think it's too soon to call it that) and during the first three weeks, we were texting normally and we were having great conversations, the responses were quick and the person tried to maintain a conversation. But, all of a sudden, it feels as if the person doesn't want to talk to me anymore; it might just be me but it feels as if the interest to maintain the conversation going just died out. I know I shouldn't get hung up on things like that but you can tell a lot from how a person talks to you, you can notice if they're interested or not. And I just can't feel any interest coming from this person when they text me. To be honest, I have this constant fear of becoming boring to a person and maybe I try too hard; my best friend told me to take things easily and just stop texting back so quickly, respond kinda with no interest in the conversation and so on. Any other advice you guys could give me?

I might just be overthinking it, I don't know. I just needed somewhere to vent about it, makes me feel like shit most of the time.

The easiest way to fix this feeling is just to ask. If there person likes you back then they will be glad to explain themselves and maybe it is all just a big misunderstanding. If not, at least you have an answer and know not to waste your time on a person that doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about them.